boyfriend+girlfriend=marriage???
- Thread starter galadari
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Great Video! Masha Allah. The video shows us what is wrong with the muslim ummah and we all know it. We know when we take the sinful gaze, or think that thought. We must find the strength in ourselves, the strenh that Allah (swt) has given us to stray away and fight off the saitan
shaheeda35
strive4Jannah
:salam2:
That was very powerful,:ma: ! May Allah forgive us and have mercy on us, Ameen!!:tti_sister: Jazakallahu Khairan!!
That was very powerful,:ma: ! May Allah forgive us and have mercy on us, Ameen!!:tti_sister: Jazakallahu Khairan!!
wannabe_muttaqi
A MUSLIM BROTHER
ASAK,
Mashallah Amazing video. And thanks for the post. May ALLAH SWT reward you for this.
Sister Gabrieele, its never late to seek forgiveness. Doors of forgiveness are open till the sun rises from the west.
JAK
Mashallah Amazing video. And thanks for the post. May ALLAH SWT reward you for this.
Sister Gabrieele, its never late to seek forgiveness. Doors of forgiveness are open till the sun rises from the west.
JAK
alkathiri
As-Shafaa'i(Brother)
Nope . Allah is most Merciful
okey, okey....but explain this to me.....
I understand the reason behind not shaking hands, no talking in private, women covering themselves, the temptation that comes with friendship.....yes, I understand very well those very valid reasons and I agree....
But then......How can you get into marriage if there's no friendship first.....I mean.....how Muslim men and women get to know each other and get married?
please don't misunderstand me, I'm not looking for wife, I'm already married...I'm Just curious.....
I understand the reason behind not shaking hands, no talking in private, women covering themselves, the temptation that comes with friendship.....yes, I understand very well those very valid reasons and I agree....
But then......How can you get into marriage if there's no friendship first.....I mean.....how Muslim men and women get to know each other and get married?
please don't misunderstand me, I'm not looking for wife, I'm already married...I'm Just curious.....
alkathiri
As-Shafaa'i(Brother)
Salaam,
You do it the old fashioned way. My parents looked at each other after they were married. The marriage lasted over 48 years, until the demise of my father. Love growns. It is not attraction. Attraction simply vanishes with time until the next appealing object comes shining throug.
The rules of marriage and society are different. Marraige is considered more of a blessing. You have a different field. You have a lifetime to learn to appreciate another being. You learn to be patient and serve and count your blessings. You are always thankful to Allah that He in His Wisdom gave you a partner.
On another thread Brother GP gave us a link:http://www.jannah.com/dd/ilmquest/fiqh_of_love.html
it may be worth your while to read about Islamic marriage from an authority.
As a counselor, I have provided marriage counseling to many couples...here in the US, I can honestly say the same theme was apparent in all the couples, I would ask them to forgive each other...
I ask Allah to forgive me.
You do it the old fashioned way. My parents looked at each other after they were married. The marriage lasted over 48 years, until the demise of my father. Love growns. It is not attraction. Attraction simply vanishes with time until the next appealing object comes shining throug.
The rules of marriage and society are different. Marraige is considered more of a blessing. You have a different field. You have a lifetime to learn to appreciate another being. You learn to be patient and serve and count your blessings. You are always thankful to Allah that He in His Wisdom gave you a partner.
On another thread Brother GP gave us a link:http://www.jannah.com/dd/ilmquest/fiqh_of_love.html
it may be worth your while to read about Islamic marriage from an authority.
As a counselor, I have provided marriage counseling to many couples...here in the US, I can honestly say the same theme was apparent in all the couples, I would ask them to forgive each other...
I ask Allah to forgive me.
It is too soon to say that I love this man but, I can say I love that he is so strong in his beliefs and loves it! I really respect that, and if someone loves something this much it has too be nothing but good,which leaves me to be curious. I want to be in his world, I want to love what he loves. He has already expressed to me that we could be nothing if I am not muslim.
alkathiri
As-Shafaa'i(Brother)
Can i ask do you feel islam is the right religion??
Okey, I guess now I understand little bit better, I guess you must get enough information about your future partner before your proposal, ('cause there's no way of knowing her/him personally) that way you are making sure you will marry the right one for you....thanks for the link...
P.S.....well, no need to worry 'cause if ever you make a wrong choice you can still marry a new woman (in case of male)
and if still another wrong choice, you still have 2 more to score... or....get a divorce as the second choice.....
yes.....it's indeed very important to get enough information about your future partner before your proposal, to avoid those cases I mentioned above....
alkathiri
As-Shafaa'i(Brother)
P.S.....well, no need to worry 'cause if ever you make a wrong choice you can still marry a new woman (in case of male)
or....get a divorce as the second choice.....
yes.....it's indeed very important to get enough information about your future partner before your proposal, to avoid those cases I mentioned above....
Yes but islam is very strict on plural marriage
abou haytam
Junior Member
P.S.....well, no need to worry 'cause if ever you make a wrong choice you can still marry a new woman (in case of male)
or....get a divorce as the second choice.....
this is not the reason for which it s allowed to have more than one wife.
check this plz
http://www.islam-qa.com/index.php?ref=14022&ln=eng&txt=تعدد الزوجات
http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=13096&highlight=wife
http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=15176&highlight=wife
well if i was looking for a wife i would have taken the help of my parents and pray istikhara inshallah.........and have faith on allah(swt)