I am not planning on leaving him.
The situation is complicated. He has never told anyone in his family about our marriage and son yet. I don't believe, from talking to him, he ever had any intentions of telling them. It would cause to much hurt for his mother and because of culture, he did not want to be forced to choose between us and them.
I was upset but have come to accept this.
SO now this happens and he MUST go to his mother, I understand and I want him to be with her. He said this to me in a way that we talked about a long time ago...that when/if he ever goes back, he will not return...
Anyway, even if he wants too he most probably will not be allowed to enter back in the US.
It is long and complicated...but that is why I wrote that.
I am not planning on leaving him.
The situation is complicated. He has never told anyone in his family about our marriage and son yet. I don't believe, from talking to him, he ever had any intentions of telling them. It would cause to much hurt for his mother and because of culture, he did not want to be forced to choose between us and them.
I was upset but have come to accept this.
SO now this happens and he MUST go to his mother, I understand and I want him to be with her. He said this to me in a way that we talked about a long time ago...that when/if he ever goes back, he will not return...
Anyway, even if he wants too he most probably will not be allowed to enter back in the US.
It is long and complicated...but that is why I wrote that.
This post was in 2007.... I hope the Sister managed to make a good decision for her and her family and I hope everything is fine for her. If she is around, it would be great to hear the good news Inshallah.