Thanks for the support everyone just to let you guys know it really did make me happy to see your responses
. May Allah Reward you for your kindness everyone
I see some people have requests for the Quthba i did, il explain what i did to bring it within 10 minutes
So basicly i watched a 25 minute Quthbah on Youtube and took the key points out of it and wrote down bunch of things the speaker said. And then i summed it up into 3 Flash cards i looked at time to time to see what i was going to speak about next. On each Flash card i wrote the things i was going to say in Phases
Flash Card 1:
Phase 1: Surah Isra , Ayah 23-25. "That you will not be enslaved to anyone but him alone, and in regard to both your parents, the best possible conduct"
Phase 2: The verse says Waabil Waalidayne Ihsana. Ihsana To be the best at something. So this Means Allah is Demanding your best to your parents
Phase 3: The BEST of your words, The BEST of your courtesy, the BEST of your patience should go to whom? Your parents
Phase 4: Of the good characteristics you have, the highest of them the peak of them, who deserves it most? Your parents.
Flash Card 2
Phase 1: The verse teaches you must be good to your parents, especially your father whether he was good or not, merciful or not, courteious or not. The same goes for your mother
Phase 2: In Modern days you might hear parents say to a child say "why are you so mean to me?" And the child would say "well you werent there for me you didnt let me go to the park blablabla". See theirs a system goes on here which is receive and give back. But Allah sayid strictly it does not matter. You dont give your parents respect because they give you respect, you do it because its the command of allah regardless how your parents were mean to you.
Phase 3- So we must ask allah for forgiveness, and be aware of our actions
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Flash card 3
Assuming you got back up
Phase 1: Theres a verse in the Quran in which it refers to old people, and it says "That we reverse them in Creation" And on of the interpertations of that when parents reach old age they become more childish, harder to deal with, cant reason through them. So you must care for them as they did for you, Even if they didnt, its the command of Allah.
Phase 2: You cannot even show frustration to your parents.When your parents are mad , do something good for them, vacuum for them, clean their room, buy flowers for them, you dont fight fire with fire.
Conclusion Statement- Take the chance when your parents are mad, you can never repay them for what they did you, and it can
only be by the mercy of Allah. So may Allah Guide us and help us making decisions in in our life. And Allah Knows Best. Waqiim Assalat.
Feel free to make any corrections , and change it to suit your needs if you want to. I just put it like this cause thats the way i liked it, and i read through it many times. So when i did the Khutba i wasnt staring at the flashcard 24/7 because i just recognized what phase and thing i was about to say.
Jazakallah Khair for your responses everyone
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Oh by the way, i made this from this video
www.youtube.com/watch?v=hDgidHEWNPY
And also there was a short Verse i said in the Beggining before the Flashcards il try and upload it. And trust me guys, this takes less than 10 minutes (around 7-10). But make sure your not just reading from the flash card (Verse starts with "Innal Haam Dalilahe Wanas Ta-E-Nu-Hoo, Wanas Tagh-firuhoo and so on
: so pecae and love...
dont worry of criticism. keep making good khutbahs. 
