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  1. Shasmeen

    daily hadith

    Mashallah, Jazakhallah my sister. I'm learning a lot, alhamdulillah
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    new revert

    Salaam Sister Mashallah, May ALLAH make it easy for you. I'm also a new revert and still very excited about everything. May ALLAH increase you in knowledge and imaan. Put all your trust in ALLAH and everything will fall into place, ask me I know, alhamdulillah. This is such a perfect...
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    I never want to marry anyone else.

    Salaam everyone I haven't been getting notifications for the post anymore, but moving along swiftly... Very good advice brother Kashif Nazeer and sister pink naqaabi. And I agree with them all. In short: reading these posts made me realize a few things. yes I was infatuated and blinded...
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    I never want to marry anyone else.

    Jazakhallah khair everyone. All my questions have been answered. I will take up up on that offer Aapa. Salaam
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    I never want to marry anyone else.

    Salaam, Jazakhallah khair for the hadiths brothers. Its good to have guidance and I do welcome it. I'm content that whatever happens is by the will of Allah. I pray Allah help me. He knows best. Please keep me in your duas. Is it wrong to want to be with him in Jannah? Inshallah...
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    I never want to marry anyone else.

    Salaam brother Ayyub Non taken. Yes he did and he says it upset his mom cos she just fell silent and he didn't want to insist. He feels he blessing is important and I do agree. But back to my original question, is it wrong to refuse to get married?
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    I never want to marry anyone else.

    Thanks Aapa, will do. My brother, I am a revert. We were dating before my conversion, but after that we have been staying away from each other. And please do not think my conversion had anything to do with him, as no man on this earth deserves such glory. He wasn't even aware of my...
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    I never want to marry anyone else.

    My brother, I understand what u saying, but believe me when I say I never want to marry anyone else. I have asked everyone to stop asking me to meet people. I refuse to... I would much rather spend my time in prayer than to "interview" potential life partners. If I do come agross as...
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    I never want to marry anyone else.

    Aapa, he fears of breaking his mothers heart. They feel by him marrying in his home county he will always visit them there. Doesn't make sense to me, cos he has been going all along. That is a excellent question. I don't know, we never discussed it. If he is willing to, I'll first pray about...
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    I never want to marry anyone else.

    Salaam brothers and sisters I was involve in a "relationship" with someone and now he is being forced into a arranged marriage. He says he loves me, but do not want to go against his parents wishes. They want him to marry from the own culture as we are from different etnic groups and...
  11. Shasmeen

    I'm a Revert and this is my poem about the Hijab

    Salaam brother I like your page on FB. Sharing is caring, right?:shymuslima1:
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    I'm a Revert and this is my poem about the Hijab

    Salaam, Ameen. May Allah increase us all in knowledge. The Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) said: “The sun will get closer to the creations on the Day of Resurrection until it is only A MILE AWAY. People will perspire according to the level of their deeds. Some of them will have...
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    I'm a Revert and this is my poem about the Hijab

    Wasslamaliekum warahmatullahi wabrakatu, Mashallah!! Ameen!! Alhamdulillah!!
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    I'm a Revert and this is my poem about the Hijab

    Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem The cover… “Oh poor Muslim women; covering her up” the say When I put up my covering how I am reminded of how rich I am in Him that commanded me. “Do you cover up due to pressure or obligation?” The world can’t pressure or obligate me as Only Allah deserves...
  15. Shasmeen

    Assistance with Marriage

    Salaam How do you know when someone is ready for marrige? I was in a relationship with someone before I converted, all was perfect. After I converted we stopped seeing each other for fear of zina. He asked me to marry him a few times and even though i never answered him, he knew I want to...
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    I want to convert, but have no moral support.

    Jazakhallah khair my sister. I feel for once in my life I have a purpose. So much to learn, but Rome wasn't build in a day. I also wear hijab fulltime, so my life at work has turned upside down. Some people are just ignorant, but Allah makes it easy for those who believe. Every morning I get...
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    I want to convert, but have no moral support.

    Salaam sister. I'm in Johannesburg. I have since converted to Islam Alhamdulillah. :tti_sister::tti_sister: I have found two apas that i see weekly. :-)
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    I want to convert, but have no moral support.

    Thank you for the advice brother, I will keep you in my prayers too. So that you may find your back too. You may not be where you want to in your life, but you're where God wants you to be.
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    I want to convert, but have no moral support.

    Salaams brothers and sisters Thank you for the support. I have some good news, I met with a muslimah and she has given me a book to read. What Islam is all about.. I also got Islamic stories and music for my kids. They told me today that the now want to refer to God as Allah only. And they...
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    I want to convert, but have no moral support.

    Thank you for the links Brother Azimaz. I will do that. I like it already. Sister Seeking Allah"s Mercy i'll send you a PM if you don't mind.
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