True_Sultan
A logical believer
I too was 19 years old when I got engaged!what good times...when my heart beated so fast every time I meet my fiancè!it's almost 5 years I'm married and still feel that heartbreaking sensation.in Islam it's haram to have a deeper approach with somebody,may Allah keep your relation stronger.
I won't allow to my daughters to make the same mistake I did in the past,I pretend that they'll get married in a pure status,because it's Allah's Will to prevent fitnah.may Allah forgive me too,because I was ignorant:tti_sister:
I am just wonder, what do you mean by having a deeper approach with somebody? Do you mean having a genuine love at first sight type of thing? I mean as a man, I won't just marry a girl that is beautiful or just marry a girl for her degree. She needs to be both beautiful inside out, needs to be independent, smart and is like the other half of me in a sense that she is my backbone and she likes me for me and i do the same. So i just wanted to know what do u mean by deeper approach and why is it haram.
About the 5 reasons, both the OP and Aapa have good points, earlier marriage is dependent on opinion. I would love to find love at an early age, but i would need to be able to give and raise a family. Also if one can find love early and as well continue on with lifes goals and answers at the sametime then hey, its all goood :lol: