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it brings me great joy to share this thread with everyone lol seriously everytime i check it im surprised well what can I say our sister Shyhijabi is an amazing personality
and sister Allah (swt) has mashallah tested your patience in many ways and Alhumdulilah you passed through it all and you still continue to be strong in a time of hardship, sister you are truly a blessing upon us muslims with your knowledge, kindness and guide.
I am happy to see other people agree, just remember always start with small steps if you dont start with baby steps you are not going to be able to take the big leap.
i do admit it was hard talking to my mom, kinda frustating sometimes cuz she kept on bringing components in that weren't associated with islam but brothers and sisters, i just kept quite and i listened to her, if i had let out my anger I would have been rude to my mom instead of doing a good thing would have done something against what Allah (swt) told me.
The best thing is let them speak their mind out and let them know that they are wrong. Well, most of our parents know think that people from non-muslim background are used to dating everyday, drinking every night , you know getting their info from movies or what they see in general public.
You got to help them understand that rainbow has different colors, some are red, blue yellow etc they are not all the same they might look one from far but if you look closely they are different colors.
Its the same as some people look at islam as the religion of terrorists but thats not Islam so if we explain to the parents that they are doing the same thing as kaffir then they start to think and inshallah something will happen.
Brother Shaheer, i was talking to my mother a while ago and i was saying let me merry or if i move out of pakistan, i would merry any moroccan.. lol. And you have done a lot of work to convince you mom. Wow! You have started to become a Man
Yes, I will invite you dont you worry. Can you tell me exactly what you told your mom? lol
merey bhai Qurtabi lol trust me its not easy, it took so long to convince my mom and lol at the end she is like yea i dont have a problem with you marrying a convert but you should wait another 7-8 years lol till you complete med school I was like MANN!! I fixed one problem and another one begin GrEAT
lol but thats life, it there was no problems there wud be no fun but im glad
i did something that would change thinking for some of the muslims -- INSHALLAH.
bhai you got to understand in our society all we care about is OH what will the other person think, what will the neighbors say, what will our friends say.
LIKE SERIOUSLY JUST REMEMBER THE DAY WHEN NO MAN, NO SOCIETY, NO NEIGHBOR, NO FRIEND WILL BE ABLE TO HELP ANYONE.
Inshallah may Allah (swt) bless us all