strive-may-i
Junior Member
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Firstly, sorry incase am being seen as interfering. I just tossed around the question with folks around, and the thread too has got some very weighted thoughts. And I would like to say this, Guys mother should not become, a trouble seed, it should not get watered and become a deep rooted problem. Towards that end, to me it appears you want to move... And hence you are seeking a solution outlet. May Almighty bring calmness and clarity in your family thought, make your married life pleasant and harmonious .... Ameen
Which of below, concerns you more [one or all three?] ...
-- She lives with your family for ever, is that the problem?
-- He did not take you to confidence, so you are upset?
-- You/daughter needed time to feel comfortable and settle in this marriage, but you see more problems / pressure on your emotional state??
Next
-- Where is he from, where is his mother right now??
-- Whats his compulsion, have you tried to get an answer?
-- How did your marriage happen. Does it have their family approval? how is your husbands nature? does he listen? [u need not answer this incase its too personal, or you could message answer to one of ummah/female you are comfortable with.]
Firstly, sorry incase am being seen as interfering. I just tossed around the question with folks around, and the thread too has got some very weighted thoughts. And I would like to say this, Guys mother should not become, a trouble seed, it should not get watered and become a deep rooted problem. Towards that end, to me it appears you want to move... And hence you are seeking a solution outlet. May Almighty bring calmness and clarity in your family thought, make your married life pleasant and harmonious .... Ameen
Which of below, concerns you more [one or all three?] ...
-- She lives with your family for ever, is that the problem?
-- He did not take you to confidence, so you are upset?
-- You/daughter needed time to feel comfortable and settle in this marriage, but you see more problems / pressure on your emotional state??
Next
-- Where is he from, where is his mother right now??
-- Whats his compulsion, have you tried to get an answer?
-- How did your marriage happen. Does it have their family approval? how is your husbands nature? does he listen? [u need not answer this incase its too personal, or you could message answer to one of ummah/female you are comfortable with.]