Assalam aleikum there,
To answer your Question: i think, yes appearences Can be decptive, but not in every case.
I mean people are different, and you won't really know such and such person well unless you talk to them and see how they behave. Again, i don't think it's judging anyone really.
ps: Brother AbdulHasib, you know you're such an amazing little brother don't you?
Aw sister.
*blushes* Yeah, I know that alot of you brothersx and sisters here feel that way toward me.
May Allah Ta Alla increase your Ajr and happiness in this world and the hereafter, Oh Sister.
Ameen.
Barakallahu Feek , Jazakallah Ky sister. May Allah Ta Alla help you in this Duniyah, make you successful, fill your life with love, hope, and a sicnere tearful heart, and may he give you the best in Jannah, Ameen.
Assalamu Alykum sister Libenette.
(As for everyone else
)
Salaam,
Well I must say I am a bit disturbed by some of the words I am reading...filth...nasty...etc., The only reason we are not lost and imitating the kafir is because Allah swt, in all his mercy, let us stand in the light of Islam. Otherwise we would be in the exact same spot as the ones who don't know any better.
We should not have pride for not having lust, for wearing appropriate clothing, for meeting our prayers on time. This is bare minimum for serving and submitting to Allah swt and the only reason we are capable of doing these minimum actions are because Allah swt gives the ability. I wear hijab...and this is more than a headscarf. But I do not for one second think this makes me better than someone who does not wear hijab, I have no idea why they don't and it's not my place to judge them.
Instead each of us should ask our own selves what could we do more? How can we serve and submit even better? I promise you every one of us needs massive amounts of improvement on our worship, on our deen. Maybe if we wroked harder on ourselves we would no longer have time to look with disgust at someone not wearing hijab, eh?
Wasalaam
~Sarah
LoL sister Sarah, you kinda talk like sister Isra, LoL. (By the way, I said "kinda" I didn't say you actually did, LoL
).
But sister, YES, I DO have pride in not lusting. It's the greatest way that I am differant than the KAfirs or the munafiqs, because both of them LOVE lusting.
Like if there's a Kafir girl bending over the table, they NOTICE it too much, and I don't even kn ow about it until some boy says, "Hey, get that." And I see the direction he's looking at out of wondering waht the heck he's talking about (I never think sometimes!) And then I see her (looking like she's jsut racing over the talbe for like 20 mins!) and then as soon as I understand waht he says, I just relise what I've done, and I turn my head quickly and do Istigfar.
And siter, eyah I udnerstand waht you mean by that you don't consider yourself better than a non Hijabi, but lets say it like this.
If it deals with a Muslimah who's a convert, or a Muslima hwho wants to change and become a better Muslim, and she's going to start after she feels ready, than yes.
But this usually isn't the case. Most of time the reason why they don't (other "Muslimahs") don't wear it is out of stupidity, like if it's graduation pictures, and she doesn't ahve ehr Hijab on infront of everyone, or if it's report card night, or some specail back to school night, then she takes it off for some stupid reason. THAT'S not Hijab, and I'm not saying these things sisters becuase I want to be mean to you, or because I think you are all lowly and stuff, because I put Muslimahs in high respects and regards, because they sacrifice and do more than even men, and I'm not the one who wants to opress them, I'm the one who wants to RESPECT them.
"Filth, dirty, scum-Some words I'm hearing!"
Well siter Sarh, your eharing them correctly (or reading them actaully
) Because yeah, I said them, and I don't feel bad for saying that either. Because women who goes around dressing up Haram and ew, well, she's got no honor, no self respect, and no shame. And peopel think that insane Muslims are the dumb people? Because an insane Muslim person is more to Allah Ta Alla than this scum who walks on the street with no clothes on.
Just play this while you read on.
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Because that's dirty, and I'l say it again. DIRTY. Again? Nah that's enough
D).
But it's true though sister! What I'm saying is right! It IS true! And it's stupid also when people see Muslimahs as being lowly and worthless, like ants or like some dirt, because THEY AREN'T dirt, THEY'RE BEAUTIFUL, BEAUTIFUL IN A WAY NO ONE, NO MAN, OR NO ONE COULD DESCRIBE!
And it's a beauty that no Zayniyah in this accursed Duniyah can have, or no beauty that even Hur Ein has. It's modesty, kindness, love, and piousness. If any brother marries a Muslimah with these qualities, then Inshallah, they shall live forevver toagether, and have each other in their hearts.
And Muslimahs are pure, and kind, and loving in the heart. You wouldn't see any Zaniyah showing any love Allah Ta Alla, would you? No! The only thing she loves is money, men, and more dam size Extra SKinny to wear so they can adore! She's a dang slave to her own dang slef! And if any thing happens, like if ALOT and I mean ALOT of men see her, to the extent that makes ehr feel kinda uneasy, THAN THAT'S
HER OWN DAM FAULT!
If she goes around sticking her freakin behind out so every dam guy who sees her can see what's under ehr clothes, than what does she expect?!
There's no one to blame but herself!
While for Muslimahs, the kind, loving, modest, and beautiful Muslim sisters......
Their greatest love is in Allah Ta Alla. Not money, not how "hot" or wahtever the heck she can look, not how much money her man she marries can make, but Allah Ta Alla! Now I know that there are ones that don't have these qualities, and have the bad things (like I said aobe, but just take out the "Nots"), but most of them, (and especially the sisters on this site) HAVE this!
They love Allah Ta Alla. The greatest beauty. Trust me sisters, this TRULY IS the greatest beauty. If you have this, than Allah Ta Alla (like I said yesterday)
makes this Duniyah easier for you (unless he test you), and then trust me sisters, he SHALL give you beauty like no other.
You want to be so beautiful sisters? THen have this quality. And siter who have this quality (love in Allah Ta Alla), than Inshallah, Allah Ta Alla shall beautify you, like how he already did, by alot!
Not only on the outside, but in the inside too. A clean pure and loving heart, and on the outside, (he might give you this depending on if it's best for you or not), you look extremely beautiful sisters.
And if no man wants to mary you beucasew your pious or your not drop dead gorgeous, or them drop dead (on the bed) gorgeous, then too bad for him!
BEcuase he's not the right ma nfor you. The right man for you is the one who loves you, no matter how you look, he adores you for your morals adn the way you are, and he loves that mroe than how you look.
And sisters, don't worry about looking good in this Duniyah. Like it is known, this Duniyah is only temporary, and the Hereafter is permanent, and sisters, if you truly are pious and love Allah Ta Alla in your heart, than he shall make you extremly beautiful, the kind of beautiful you'd dream of being, and trust me, this beauty is far greater than Hur Ein! Because by this, anyone who ses you can tell, "That beautiful women ther was a pious Muslimah, who was modest and loved Alla hTA Alla with ehr heart," and such an honor it is.
Jazakllah Kyran sister Srah, if you never made this psot I'd enver be able to say all of thesegreat words of wisdom, and I'd never be able to share them with all my brothers adn siters, so may Allah reward you sister.
Soemtimes I feel that all you do is say something mean to me sister Sarah, but I know not to beleive that. Because Allah Ta Alla knows, and you probably jsut wanted to say something straightforward and stuff.
But anyway, May Allah Ta Alla have you marry that very pious Pakistani brother you watned to mary, may he give you lushfull life in this world and the Akirah, and for our other sisters too.
And may he bless our great sisters in Islam, the Queens of our present day Ummah. May Allah Ta Alla multiply all their rewards by the thousands! Ameen.
Assalamu Alykum sisters.