Media, Islam & Muslims!
Asslamo Allaikum,
Media makes us believe that Mr Right & Ms Perfect are OUT there!
They are NOT!
Follow the Qur'aan & Sunnah and you & me & everybody else can become one!
Rasul-ullah (Sallaho Alaihe Wassallam) took the WORST of the people and turned them into the BEST of humanity!
Key is Islam!
Key is Qur'aan & Sunnah!
Key is constant Self-improvement and reflection!
Key is having the guts & saying Sorry when we mess up! Shaytaan teaches arrogance (& we are too big to say Sorry) but Allah (SWT) commands us to have humility
But know that ALL HUMANS are liable to error & PERFECTION is a trait of Allah (SWT) & not humans!
We & our spouses will make mistakes BUT Allah (SWT) commands us to overlook, forgive and forget....
OR
We can make an issue out of it and ruin our lives.
We can't change others, but we can adjust ourselves and control our reaction.
Our Call really.