Hi all, thank you for your response, especilly Mohsin with his Quran quotes. I really appreciate it.
Thank you also for youtube references by muslimah-2k8 and justoneofmillion, especially regarding scholars refuting the bible. There are some accuracy issues on the video, one of it re. the virgin birth of Jesus by Mary (which actually were acknowledged even in Quran). The reason I believe that it was a moot point in my earlier reply was because, if you truly wish to be fair, there are million of others that refute Islam too, on the same youtube. However, I do not wish to do refer to any of it, not because I cannot, but because it was not my intention, even from the beginning.
The major differences in theology between Islam, Jew, and Christians lay in the way God approaches us, human in order to save us. In Christians belief, God loves us, human, soo much that He decided to come down to earth as human being and technically, became a sacrificial substitute for us, sinners, so that we can be saved.
There is an illustration like this one. Once upon a time there is a wise king who lived and ruled with justice and love. He had a mother who he loved very much and who, for some reason, stole some very valuable things from the palace. Now there was a punishment law at that time that took place: thiefs had to be whipped as punishment.
The king had a dilema. If he punished and whipped his own old mother, she would definitely die, but if he didn't do it according to the law, he would not be a fair king, and he could not set an good example to his people. Finally, the king's decision was: he ordered the whipping punishment to take place, as the punishment law had to be done for justice. However, instead of his mother, he placed himself to be whipped as the substitute. He was willing to come down from his throne, be humbled and replaced his mother's place as criminal to be whipped, because he loved his mother so much.
That is how the love of God to humans are being perceived by Christians. Humans are sinners, and nobody can earn the rights to go to heaven (justice). In order to save humans, God came down in the form of Christ as a substitute, so that humans can be saved (love). This is the only way it can be done to balance justice and love.
Now again, I came to this forum with (God help me) a humble heart, at least I try to be, and I do hope that our Muslim friends can have a better understanding of the Christian way of life, and at the same time, I can learn more about Quran.
Lastly, I want to say again that if I have offended any body, please forgive me. It is truly not my intension to do so.
God bless.