Father And Son Playing Slaps!

[TheAuthenticBase]

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[sachin4islam]

Assalamu Alaikum:

Br, this is your first post that I haven't liked. Sorry.

Regards.

 

[thariq2005]

Revert2010- can you watch your language please.

 

[sachin4islam]

haha, watch my language, understand english first before judging.


unlike u, at least that kid & his dad can enjoy themselves, feel sorry for u

Revert-2010 if you truly reverted to Islam than exhibit the Akhlaq. You been here to create mischief?.

Islam is composite of Ikhlas and Akhlaq.

 

[Tabassum07]

:salam2:

This is disgusting. Just plain disgusting. What is the point of that father teaching his son that its OK to raise his hand against his elders? And you can clearly see the child's face is red, and several times he's holding back tears. Why make the child go through this?

The child will grow up ready to raise his hand at the drop of a hat this way - thinking its "funny" and "cool" and "manly" and whatnot. Will the child really regard his father as his mentor this way? Or just as an equal? Trust me on this, years down the line if the dad wants to discipline his kid and raises his voice, or raises his hand, what will ever stop the child from retaliating back in the same way?

Despicable.

EDIT: And if to find something "funny" in the video means laughing at the clear lack of respect for Islamic ettiquette, tarbiyah, family relationships and rules, so be it - I'd rather be labelled "depressing".

 

[sachin4islam]

Revert-2010,OK I won't interfere further for you have set your own code of conduct.

I am not questioning your belief. And how can I do so as it is beyond my strength. But I have been blesses by Allah (SWT) with five senses like others and at least I can perceive you a bit through your wordings.

Regards.

 

[JenGiove]

:salam2:

Brother Revert, May I ask, why do you seem so angry? It appears as if you are quick to anger with your brothers and sisters who, even when they gently express their disagreement with each other, still show respect towards each other. What was so wrong with Brother sachin4islam conveying a dislike of a single post to Brother TheAuthenticBase?

While I understand that you may have thought the video funny because it was a game played between son and father which clearly shows that it is something they have shared before, the disrespect you showed to Brother sachin4islam by calling him a "bum" was uncalled for.

Brother Thariq2005 is a moderator and as such, it is his duty to try and curb where he can such disrespect. He does this not for power and does so freely. It is a charity to his brothers and sisters and as such should be applauded.

Respectfully, I ask that you keep all these things in mind when communicating. It hurts and saddens me to watch it. I know it hurts other sisters as well. Do you really wish such pain upon our hearts?

Please, you can be so much more than this. You ARE so much more than this. Please, I beg you...read gently and speak even gentler.

 

[Tabassum07]

im not sure what u mean by holding back tears, the kid hits harder than the dad.

The kid is nearly crying at a few points - of course he'll hurt being slapped so much. And the kid hits harder than the dad? I suppose that's a good sign? How nice to be trained to slap so well, at such a little age.

 

[ShyHijabi]

:salam2:

Isn't there a hadith where Prophet Mohammed stated not to hit a child in the face?

 

[thariq2005]

Revert201- I think you're taking things a bit too far with the keyboard. You need to calm down and stop calling people names for no apparent reason. You keep saying you're a good guy and your the first one to cause trouble in this thread.

I can leave your un-edited post, which means your very ill-mannered side will be exposed.

I am editing your post to protect your honour, while you edit mine to humilate me and slander me. This time around- I won't bother editing that quote and leave it so that people know what your character is like.

 

[JenGiove]

:salam2:

Isn't there a hadith where Prophet Mohammed stated not to hit a child in the face?

:salam2:

Dearest sister,

From what I could gleen and research, striking the face in anger to discipline is forbidden as described here:

http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/127233/children

But I remember getting into a discussion about images with the people on Islam qa's facebook page and this is what they would quote me as proof that the face of images SHOULD be struck...I still don't understand how it relates..but it may be what you're remembering:

The image is the face, which must be erased so that the image disappears, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) forbade striking the “image”. (Narrated by al-Bukhaari).

http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/3332/images

 

[Tabassum07]

:salam2:...............

Allah, the Exalted, says:

"And lower your wings for the believers (be courteous to the fellow-believers).'' (15:88)

"And had you been severe and harsh-hearted, they would have broken away from about you.'' (3:159)

693. `Adi bin Hatim (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "Guard yourselves against the Fire (of Hell) even if it be only with half a date-fruit (given in charity); and if you cannot afford even that, you should at least say a good word.''
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

Commentary: This Hadith highlights the point that Sadaqah has great benefits and even in its minimum scope and quantity it can ensure our safety against Hell-fire. We are told that if we do not have even a single date or half of it to give to a needy person, we can manage to have the same benefit by talking to him in a compassionate tone, provided we have Faith in our heart.

694. Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet (PBUH) said, "It is also charity to utter a good word.''
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

Commentary: In Islam, it is not spending money alone that counts as charity; talking to somebody in a decent way also comes in the same context. Now, one can feel the importance Islam gives to moral values and good manners. This saying of Messenger of Allah (PBUH) is part of a long Hadith mentioned earlier. See Hadith No. 122.

695. Abu Dharr (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "Do not disdain a good deed, (no matter how small it may seem) even if it is your meeting with your (Muslim) brother with a cheerful face.''
[Muslim].

Commentary: Every deed approved by the Shari`ah is considered good and rewarding. Howsoever seemingly small people may consider it, it must not be looked at from a highbrow angle. Even to meet people cheerfully is one of the Islamic virtues, though it may appear quite insignificant to some people.

 

[Tabassum07]

do you want to borrow my glasses? watch it again, his swings his arm harder.

You misunderstand me, akhi. There is no need whatsoever to get angry. I was only repeating what you yourself have said. Yes, the kid hits harder - but is it a good thing?

 

[thariq2005]

you edited mine and you edited sakeena's , and now your whining i made such posts, give it a rest.

If I was whining I would have edited your post for the second time.

Take a chill pill and calm down.

Not everyone has the same sense of humour. Not everyone likes being called a 'bum', maybe your friends might.

Would you ever realize your mistake? Or let's say according to you... you are right and everyone else is wrong. Why is it the case that no one has the same sense of humour as you? Why is it so that no one here likes to be a called a 'bum' apart from you?

Let me answer- it's 'cos you are a good guy and that your friends certified you with that title.... perhaps the world will be a better place if you can keep your 'jokes' within your circle of friends.

 

[aisha16]

This was funny but awkward lol... Feel sorry for the dad he looks like he's in pain.....

 

[thariq2005]

Firstly, I am not complaining.

Secondly, I am not bullying you in anyway.

Thirdly, Sister Sakeena never complained to me about editing her post- so you can stop being people's spokesperson.

Fourthly, I don't know what right you are talking about... 'cos you started all this mess right from the start. You called br. Sachin a 'bum' when no one did anything to you. What is your problem with people? Why do you want to call people names? Is that how you talk to your father? Br. Sachin is an older brother and he deserves respect and not that sort of childish attitude.

Admit your mistake and move on bro. Just 'cos you used to talk me does not give you the right to insult members for no reason.

 

[strive-may-i]

SLAP YOU....

 

[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

i'l respect you when you respect other people.

Asalamaoalaikom wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh,

This is sad, Real sad! No one talks to Akhi thariq like that. He respects and is respected.

Brother, can you recall on small incident where akhi Thariq insulted 'you'? He's a mod, if he finds something wrong with our posts, he has full right to edit it. Why? because when we sign up at TTI, we agree to the rules. As per rules mods can do that.

Not to mention, what did Brother sachin do to you that you called him 'that'?

 

[thariq2005]

I guess you are the last person who should tell people to respect others... you don't even follow your own advice.

If your family enjoys your 'jokes' keep it with them. Don't post it here. No one on this thread liked your 'joke' towards br. Sachin

 

[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

Thariq, i'l never understand what goes through your mind.


my family are great, we can laugh, i don't take it to heart.

if you wanna be that boring, just lock yourself in your room and ignore the world and listen to music that sounds like a funeral dirge with moaning vocals and lyrics about self-pity & angst, or just sit and cry.


i like to enjoy myself, socialise, have a laugh and do things that lifts peoples' spirits.

i wouldn't be surprised if you even said going to Hajj is nothing special, yes 1 brother once said that to me in person.


wow, talk about boring people.

Yes we are boring and akhi thariq is our boring Chief and Akhi Sachin is Second in command! Deal with it! if you have a problem go to a place other than TTI. Go sit with you family and call them names?

You are not lifting our spirits here, you are making feel sad and insulted.