Feeling stressed?!

palestine

Servant of Allah
"Do people imagine that they will be left at ease because they say 'We have faith!' and will not be tested? But certainly We tested those who were before them.."
[Surah 29:2-3]




Stress is a normal part of one’s life. However, if not remedied or managed, stress can lead to serious health problems. Some symptoms of stress include fatigue, exhaustion, depression, burnout and breakdown. Follow these steps to live insha'Allah a stress-free life.



1. Have a Strong Iman.

It is important to understand and believe that everything is from Allah, and that everything occurs for a reason. A Muslim is one who accepts everything that happens to them as good. If something good happens to her, she says Alhamdulillah. If something bad happens to her, she says Alhamdulillah.



2. Exercise

Exercising regularly (2-3 times a week), and building up a sweat is an excellent and healthy way of relieving stress. It is also recommended for Muslims in general to be in the best of shape, for preparations of hardships, tribulations, or Jihad.



3. Eat Healthy

Avoiding the potato chips and cookies, and eating healthy meals not only makes one feel better, but makes one look better too. Junk foods can cause an overall sluggish and lazy person. Meanwhile, those who consume healthy meals feel more energized and productive.



4. Understand the Reality of this World

When afflicted with distress, remember that this life is only like a drop of water on the finger as opposed to the vast ocean of water of the hereafter. The tests and trials of this small world are tests of our patience and faith in Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta'ala). Jannah is our goal, so let’s work hard to achieve that rewarding goal.



5. Take Time Out

When on the verge of burnout, breakdown, or depression, take a step back and relax for a while. Sometimes it is helpful to relieve oneself from a few responsibilities while temporarily taking some extra time to strengthen one’s relationship with Allah, and reorganizing one’s time. However, although this may be beneficial on occasion, it is not good to make a habit of taking too many breaks. It is difficult to come back to a responsibility after being on a ‘mental vacation’. Also, we must be careful that we are not using taking time out as an excuse to avoid a problem or a way to run away from it. We should still come back to the task at hand, not just give up.



6. Be Positive!

Verily with every hardship there is Relief. Remember that this is a temporary phase, and it will end in time, bi'ithnillah (with the permission of Allah). The bitterness of today will end, and insha'Allah tomorrow will definately be better. Have hope in Allah Ta'ala, and be positive.
If you begin to have negative, stress building thoughts, such as; "I'll never get this project in on time.", then turn it around, break it down, to begin to think more postively, such as; "If I stay focused and take it one step at a time, I'll make steady progress."

Ibn Abbas (radiAllahu anhu) reported that; I was (once) behind the Prophet when he said to me:
'O son! I shall inform of a few things: Remember Allah, and He will protect you. Remember Allah, and you will find Him close to you. When you have to ask for something, ask of Allah Most High. When you require aid, seek His Aid. Believe firmly that if all the creation desires to benefit you in anything, they can never benefit you, but, that which Allah has decreed for you. If they all unite to harm you, they will not be able to harm you in anything, but that which Allah has decreed for you'
[at-Tirmidhi]
 

*Sana*

.~.Slave of Allah.~.
Assalamualaikum WaRahmatullahi WaBarakaatu,

Jazaka Allah Khayr for sharing Sister Palestine. May Allah Ta'alah reward you accordingly for your efforts Insha Allah.

It really is great info that should be acted upon by every Muslim in order to build and deliver stronger Muslim individuals into the community.

Wasalaam :)
 

anwar99

New Member
Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahe wabarakaatuhu

Alhumdulillah,There is no best way of Meditation than Salaah.which helps one keep focused.and it can prove to be a stress buster,inshallah.
 

Mahzala

فَتَبَارَكَ اللَّهُ أَحْسَنُ الْخَالِقِينَ
Assalamualaikum

:bismillah1:

Ibn Abbas (radiAllahu anhu) reported that; I was (once) behind the Prophet when he said to me:
'O son! I shall inform of a few things: Remember Allah, and He will protect you. Remember Allah, and you will find Him close to you. When you have to ask for something, ask of Allah Most High. When you require aid, seek His Aid. Believe firmly that if all the creation desires to benefit you in anything, they can never benefit you, but, that which Allah has decreed for you. If they all unite to harm you, they will not be able to harm you in anything, but that which Allah has decreed for you'
[at-Tirmidhi]

In every circumstance in life, whether good or bad, we should remember Allah. In stress, in grief, sadness, sorrow, happiness, in success, achievements, we should always remember Allah, either thank Him, Praise Him, turn to Him, ask Him for help and guidance. In Surah Yusuf, in the Holy Quran, Yaqub (AS) says: And unto Allah is my grief. Personally, I live by this Ayah. I believe that, yes some people are in the habit of sharing their problems with people, friends or family, and there is absolutely nothing wrong in that. We live among people, not among Angels, and we need to communicate. But then, there are some people that cant. Some people that maybe have lost trust, or have been betrayed, or simply feel that they dont need to share. For me, its Allah. He is the Best of Listeners, Givers and Healers. Putting trust in Allah strengthens the souls and is very Dear to Allah.

When afflicted with distress, remember that this life is only like a drop of water on the finger as opposed to the vast ocean of water of the hereafter. The tests and trials of this small world are tests of our patience and faith in Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta'ala). Jannah is our goal, so let’s work hard to achieve that rewarding goal.

Allah knows Best. What He, Almighty has planned is Best. It is definately in our Khair, in this life and the next. We shouldnt question our circumstance, rather we should accept it as yet another worldly challenge, and we should pray that we can pass with Imaan, Insha Allah. Whatever happens has been predestined. We should take it as it comes and in each test turn to Almighty, ask for His Help, ask for Sabr and ask for Imaan. These tests shouldnt change the state of our Imaan. We should constantly remember that He Almighty inflicts hardship upon those Whom He Loves, and those who are Dear to Him, and an expiation of our sins.

Dear Sister Palestine, May Allah reward you for your efforts and Jazak Allah for sharing.

Assalamualaikum
 

kashif_nazeer

~~~Alhamdulillah~~~
:salam2:
Alhamdulillah that was good...I needed it esp since my exams are near.
JazakAllah khayr :)
PS:Ice cream can be a great stress buster =D
 

shaheeda35

strive4Jannah
:salam2:
A much needed read for me, mashallah! Just at the right time.

Jazakallahu Khairan for sharing!
 

Asha88

Ghurabaa
Salaam Sister Palestine,

Thank you for the post! That was a really good reminder for everyone. We will always be stressed with our daily activities but insyaAllah if we have strong imaan, we can cope with it well.
 
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