Assalamualakum
I want to go into the subject of Marriage. I am 17 years old and learned a whole lot about Islam during the last 3 years of my life than the previous years combined. I started understanding more about it and its origin and it's message.
As brother's and Sister's have stated in my last thread quite a while ago, You are not aloud to talk to any women at all if it does not have to do with Islam. I have already grasped this and started to applying this to my school life.
So the Question is, How do i marry a girl if i dont know how she is or her personality if i cant talk to her? I am not a fan of arranged marriages for many reasons especially when my parents are in their late 60's. My family isnt all to religious so i dont think they would really care about marriage for me so im left alone.
I dont know what to do
I know it is the month of ramadan but i want to get everything straight before it ends and shaitan comes and tempts me and whisper's into my thoughts.... I am doing my very best this ramadan so far i went to all the Taraweeh prayers and going to the Qadr nights.
Can someone help please and increase us all in knowledge
And allah knows best
I want to go into the subject of Marriage. I am 17 years old and learned a whole lot about Islam during the last 3 years of my life than the previous years combined. I started understanding more about it and its origin and it's message.
As brother's and Sister's have stated in my last thread quite a while ago, You are not aloud to talk to any women at all if it does not have to do with Islam. I have already grasped this and started to applying this to my school life.
So the Question is, How do i marry a girl if i dont know how she is or her personality if i cant talk to her? I am not a fan of arranged marriages for many reasons especially when my parents are in their late 60's. My family isnt all to religious so i dont think they would really care about marriage for me so im left alone.
I dont know what to do
I know it is the month of ramadan but i want to get everything straight before it ends and shaitan comes and tempts me and whisper's into my thoughts.... I am doing my very best this ramadan so far i went to all the Taraweeh prayers and going to the Qadr nights.
Can someone help please and increase us all in knowledge
And allah knows best