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    :salam2:It s her i miss her so much ,i had showed her our website,may allah swt watch over her as am not there anymore to do that!all other women are dead boring to me please brothers and sisters make dua for her that she will be fine,that is all i want .

    wassalaam
    jameel
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    asalamalikum

    im in same situation like u bro i will be turnin 20 inshaallah but da problem is my family 3-4 years in study well i wana marry nw cuz im scared of 2 much fitnah livein in modern society iz kinda hard trust me but ive got a friend who is 29 years he is stuck in da situation his parents r 2 much cultured he wana marry but his mum has culture mind damn y pplz forgets religion n follow cultures.... bro wen i look at my friend 29 years i try to control n u have to learn control thing im here same like u learnin mre abut islam :) aslamalikum n allah make u patience
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    I have been told (could be wrong) that a man has to have his 1st wifes blessings to take on another wife. What will you do if she says no way???
    Also I think because this girl is not Muslim you think it ok to marry her, do your thing and then up & leave. If you have no respect for non muslim women why would you want to marry her.
    Marriage should be for marriage(a life time committment) not just something to do to tide yourself over.
    Sorry if I offend you as this is not my intention
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    Sorry bro, I feel like ur just trying to satisfy your manly urges, marriage is more than that a women has alot of respect and value in Islam and just think wat kind of example ur going to be setting for other people
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    :salam2:please refrain from answering if you have nothing new to add but judge and accuse!you have first of all to go through the whole thread to understand in depth the variety of factors at stake if you do not feel like doing that...this is a serious matter here.

    I wanted to get some legal opinion ,open a dialogue concerning it ,and put my case to be analyzed in a broader context concerning the ummah and this mess that is marriage,i got it,life is not always fun we know that ,it wasn t meant to be anyways down here.

    To brother shaheerpak, i know you intend well but i dont need to justify my urges,they have been given to me as a gift that carries a responsibility with it, am trying to keep both balanced,it is part of the struggle,by the way i declined the girl s offer a while ago,just asked for your duaas this time around.The issue is clear .

    wassalaam
    jameel
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    Just wait until you finish your schooling, you never you might marry the girl that you want?!!! Besides, why should you rush yourself into something your not sure of?
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    MOHAMMAD IDREES

    BROTHER ITS NOT ALLOWED IN ISLAM TO MARRY A NON-MUSLIM GIRL
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    Muslim boys/men are permitted to marry Christian and Jewish girls/women but not vice versa. Muslims may only marry Hindus, Buddhists etc if the other party agrees to revert to Islam.
    Any non muslim simply converting to marry would be accepted, but would probably find it too demanding to live the Islamic way.

    As per the book I am studying on Islam

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