Hijab
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and my mom has said i can not wear it while living at home but i know I need to take that step. Idont know if I should move out? can people give me suggestions I'm really confused... "/IHearIslam
make dua 4 ma finals
Assalaamu alaikum,
masha'Allaah, tabarakaAllaah! I ask Allaah to keep you steadfast in this beautiful deen! ameen
what a great TIME to wear Hijab! the blessed month of Ramadan! alhamdulillaah!
what can you do?
first option: help your Mom understand what Hijab is and how it's important to you
Second option: I dont know if this is good or not....but if I were you, I would walk out the house without my Hijab and when I am out of my Mom's sight I would put it on :S this might not be the best, but I certainly do not suggest moving out....especially if you're young and without job? (these I am just guessing)
Third option: just wanted to let you know that, I am not good at giving advice?
sorrry, but Ima make Dua for you!
I ask Allaah to make everything easy for you! ameen
masha'Allaah, tabarakaAllaah! I ask Allaah to keep you steadfast in this beautiful deen! ameen
what a great TIME to wear Hijab! the blessed month of Ramadan! alhamdulillaah!
what can you do?
first option: help your Mom understand what Hijab is and how it's important to you
Second option: I dont know if this is good or not....but if I were you, I would walk out the house without my Hijab and when I am out of my Mom's sight I would put it on :S this might not be the best, but I certainly do not suggest moving out....especially if you're young and without job? (these I am just guessing)
Third option: just wanted to let you know that, I am not good at giving advice?
sorrry, but Ima make Dua for you! I ask Allaah to make everything easy for you! ameen
saifkhan
abd-Allah
Saalam alaikum sister,
First of all: mashaa'Allah, may Allah proetct you from every evil.
2nd: do not disobey you parents, until they put you to do Shirk stuffs, even then you are not allowed to behave bad with them. that what is written in Quran. but the next step is also written there: be mild with them, be polite with them, dont make them say: 'uff'
but we can make them understand with convincing talk, meke them the wisdom behind the practise of Islam, and surely they gonna listen to you. make them feel proud that you behave well with the,and then you'll be out the trouble and may Allah help you.
JazakAllahu khair
wassalam
First of all: mashaa'Allah, may Allah proetct you from every evil.
2nd: do not disobey you parents, until they put you to do Shirk stuffs, even then you are not allowed to behave bad with them. that what is written in Quran. but the next step is also written there: be mild with them, be polite with them, dont make them say: 'uff'
but we can make them understand with convincing talk, meke them the wisdom behind the practise of Islam, and surely they gonna listen to you. make them feel proud that you behave well with the,and then you'll be out the trouble and may Allah help you.
JazakAllahu khair
wassalam
revert2007
Love Fishing
Assalamualikum
ASk yourself dear,whom do you fear the most?Your mother who has no power over you or Allah The Exalted who has power over all His Creation?
I am not sure of your status whether you are a revert or a born Muslim.
AS a revert in the beginning I gave my mom some time.She asked me to remove my hijab the first time I visited her(I was living in my university).The second visit I was stubborn on wearing hijab.I gave her the choice-either she accepts me and my religion or I will leave her forever.She has to accept me.
Do not let others to make choice for you. You must make the choice.We are not living on this Earth to please others but we live only to please Allah.
Even if they disowen you,remember it is something good Allah has plan for you.
People forget that everything comes from Allah.Even the parents can find food and shelter is because of Allah and not because of themselves.
Be strong in your deen and question your mother,why in Bible it ordered the women to wear veil and why Marry peace and blessings be uopon her can wear veil but why not Muslims?
Veiling
Genesis 24:64 (King James Version)
And Rebekah lifted up her eyes, and when she saw Isaac, she lighted off the camel.
Genesis 24:65 (King James Version)
For she had said unto the servant, What man is this that walketh in the field to meet us? And the servant had said, It is my master: therefore she took a vail, and covered herself.
P.S: Paul wrote in his first letter to Corinthians
1 Corinthians 11:5-6 (King James Version)
5But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven
6For if the woman be not covered, let her also be shorn: but if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered.
What Allah The Exalted said in The Quran
024.031 And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husband's fathers, their sons, their husbands' sons, their brothers or their brothers' sons, or their sisters' sons, or their women, or the slaves whom their right hands possess, or male servants free of physical needs, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex; and that they should not strike their feet in order to draw attention to their hidden ornaments. And O ye Believers! Turn ye all together towards Allah, that ye may attain Bliss.
033.059 O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the believing women, that they should cast their outer garments over their persons (when abroad): that is most convenient, that they should be known (as such) and not molested. And Allah is Oft- Forgiving, Most Merciful.
Allah knows the best.
Assalamualikum.
ASk yourself dear,whom do you fear the most?Your mother who has no power over you or Allah The Exalted who has power over all His Creation?
I am not sure of your status whether you are a revert or a born Muslim.
AS a revert in the beginning I gave my mom some time.She asked me to remove my hijab the first time I visited her(I was living in my university).The second visit I was stubborn on wearing hijab.I gave her the choice-either she accepts me and my religion or I will leave her forever.She has to accept me.
Do not let others to make choice for you. You must make the choice.We are not living on this Earth to please others but we live only to please Allah.
Even if they disowen you,remember it is something good Allah has plan for you.
People forget that everything comes from Allah.Even the parents can find food and shelter is because of Allah and not because of themselves.
Be strong in your deen and question your mother,why in Bible it ordered the women to wear veil and why Marry peace and blessings be uopon her can wear veil but why not Muslims?
Veiling
Genesis 24:64 (King James Version)
And Rebekah lifted up her eyes, and when she saw Isaac, she lighted off the camel.
Genesis 24:65 (King James Version)
For she had said unto the servant, What man is this that walketh in the field to meet us? And the servant had said, It is my master: therefore she took a vail, and covered herself.
P.S: Paul wrote in his first letter to Corinthians
1 Corinthians 11:5-6 (King James Version)
5But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven
6For if the woman be not covered, let her also be shorn: but if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered.
What Allah The Exalted said in The Quran
024.031 And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husband's fathers, their sons, their husbands' sons, their brothers or their brothers' sons, or their sisters' sons, or their women, or the slaves whom their right hands possess, or male servants free of physical needs, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex; and that they should not strike their feet in order to draw attention to their hidden ornaments. And O ye Believers! Turn ye all together towards Allah, that ye may attain Bliss.
033.059 O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the believing women, that they should cast their outer garments over their persons (when abroad): that is most convenient, that they should be known (as such) and not molested. And Allah is Oft- Forgiving, Most Merciful.
Allah knows the best.
Assalamualikum.
:salam2:
keep it and have patience insha'Allah! Sis revert2007 gave some good advices masha'Allah. Then remember that if for you it's a bit 'strange' to wear it at the beginning (and you are muslim alhamdulillah), immagine for your mother subhanaAllah. Have patience and be always kind with your mother, even if you discuss. Khayr insha'Allah!
keep it and have patience insha'Allah! Sis revert2007 gave some good advices masha'Allah. Then remember that if for you it's a bit 'strange' to wear it at the beginning (and you are muslim alhamdulillah), immagine for your mother subhanaAllah. Have patience and be always kind with your mother, even if you discuss. Khayr insha'Allah!