I need your dua's for my son and I

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Shak78

Junior Member
Assalamu alakium brothers and sisters,

I pray you are all in good health and iman. I am asking for your dua's for my son and I. I am leaving my husband after 4 years of marriage due to alcohol abuse among other issues. I had to go get him from work he was so intoxicated. I am not sure what comes next for my son and I but I know Allah will provide for us. This was a hard decision to break up my family but I can not stand the drunkenness and I don't want my son to see his father like that. Inshallah we will be ok and it will as painless as possible.
 
alf2

alf2

Islam is a way of life
Be sure to look for groups which help families like you, go to a local health department (the mental health facility) and ask around there.

May Allah (swt) be with you sister, dont give up!
 
hayat_yahya

hayat_yahya

Junior Member
:salam2:
May Allah ease your situation, help you get through this easily and protect you and your son always ameen :SMILY252:
 
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Shak78

Junior Member
Thank you all for your dua's, he was taken away to jail for at least 6 hours to sober up and I was told I did not have to let him in if he doesn't have his keys which I won't. Alhamdulilah William is ok and playing like normal. I am getting a restraining order tomorrow against him.
 
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JenGiove

Junior Member
:salam2: Dear Brave Sister,

Alhamdulilah that your son has such a brave mother such as yourself! I grew up in a single parent household and it was my mother who was the alcoholic. She would beat me, berate me, whip me and the result was that I have forgotten several years of my childhood.

Sister, Allah will provide for you all the is necessary and inshallah, more. So long as you have a roof over your head, food in your belly and love in your heart for your son, you have the best of everything and you will be rewarded in ways that you may never truely understand untill it's unneeded.

May you feel the love from your Ummah family and also from this humble extended family member. :) Be well strong sister..
 
MohammedMaksudul

MohammedMaksudul

May Allah Forgive us
:salam2:

I hate it when men does so, you are taking a very right decision sister. May Allah help you and ease your way. May Allah make your son a lion of Islam.
 
shaheeda35

shaheeda35

strive4Jannah
:salam2:
I am so sorry to hear this. He is disobeying Allah so you are doing the right thing for you and your son. Stay strong and patient for your son. May Allah ease your affairs, ameen. You will be in my duaas inshallah.
 
justoneofmillion

justoneofmillion

Junior Member
:salam2:May Allah ease your path.Please do let him see his child and have a normal relationship with him once he gets himself together. Make it easy,do not try to replace his father for him nothing and no one can or will.Remember that if you divorce, it is a personal journey that you alone have chosen, regardless of the circumstances that might have led you this far,your child hasn't.Sadly a lot of women do think in this fashion, forgetting that they do not own the child.Try to to separate both issues in a dignified way inshallah ,do not talk bad to the boy about his father, never.Stories like this are quite sad to hear.Allow me therefore to be a little prudent in praising your decision,even tough as a brother I am obliged and sincere in wishing you the best.May Allah swt guide him back on track.
 
ditta

ditta

Alhamdu'Lillaah
Staff member
Wa-alaykum-us-Salaam wa'Rahmatullaah,

May Allah (subhaanahu wa ta'aala) make it easy for you during this difficult time and soften the heart of your husband so he realises and questions his actions. Ameen.
 
ShahnazZ

ShahnazZ

Striving2BeAStranger
What a difficult decision.

I recall reading about your dilemma and I'm so sorry it had to end like this. May Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala give you the courage, strength and patience to get through this difficult time. May He bless your child as well and let him grow up healthy and happy.

Ameen.
 
sachin4islam

sachin4islam

Junior Member
Assalam Alaikum: Sister in Islam.

A part of an Ayah of Surah '' At-Talaaq" reads " And whosoever fears Allah and keeps his duty to Him, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty)."

Another Ayah of Surah '' At-Talaaq" reads " And He will provide him from (sources) he never could imagine. And whosoever puts his trust in Allah, then He will suffice him. Verily, Allah will accomplish his purpose. Indeed Allah has set a measure for all things".

So fear Allah and put complete complete trust in Him,InshaAllah He will shower His utmost blessings upon you.

Regards.
 
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Shak78

Junior Member
sachin4islam said:
Assalam Alaikum: Sister in Islam.

A part of an Ayah of Surah '' At-Talaaq" reads " And whosoever fears Allah and keeps his duty to Him, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty)."

Another Ayah of Surah '' At-Talaaq" reads " And He will provide him from (sources) he never could imagine. And whosoever puts his trust in Allah, then He will suffice him. Verily, Allah will accomplish his purpose. Indeed Allah has set a measure for all things".

So fear Allah and put complete complete trust in Him,InshaAllah He will shower His utmost blessings upon you.

Regards.
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This is so true. This morning I was playing with my son and there was a knock at the door. It was our social workers asking for my husband. Instead of firing him and kicking the family off of the aid we are recieveing, they are keeping us on it and drew up a plan to help my husband get sober, get the counseling he needs and anything else he needs to get through this. No cost to us at all. I fell to my knees crying when I heard this and thanked Allah for a good ten minutes. Never in my wildest imagination did I expect this, I just trusted it would work out in it's own way.
That being said, he has to prove to me he will stay with the program and remain sober for us to have a chance to reconcile and stay together as a family.
@Brother Justoneinamillion. My parents were divorced and my mother used to talk poorly about my father all the time. I swore that if I ever ended up like that I would never talk ill of my child's father. I hated how it felt when she did it and I can not imagine doing it to my son. I know its sadly done far too often by mainly women.

Thank you all for your dua's, Allah has guided us to this place and given us resources I never thought possible. I don't understand how people think there is no god who looks after His people.
 
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saidsalla

Junior Member
May Alkah guide you throuh.

Put your trust and ikhlas in training your son,and be patient. Always make dua for him because Allah answers the prayer of a mother towards her child. May Allah bless him and give you a best subtitution. Ameen.
 
ditta

ditta

Alhamdu'Lillaah
Staff member
As-salaamu'Alaykum,

Alhamdu'lillaah, that's good news sister. May Allah (subhaanahu wa ta'aala) keep your family together, ease your path and give strength to your husband. Ameen.
 
ShahnazZ

ShahnazZ

Striving2BeAStranger
Alhamdulillah! If Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala can bring you TO it, He can get you THROUGH it. And I pray that you both get through this and come out stronger in the end...
 
sachin4islam

sachin4islam

Junior Member
Assalam Alaikum: Sister in Islam.

That's a very good news. InshaAllah,I hope the innocent eyes of your son will definitely crack your husband from being Non-Islamic. May Allah bless you.

Regards.
 
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