happy 2 b muslim
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ok i was thinking back back in the day am talking in the past that it was soooooooo much easy to get married and they lasted longer.How well as i was thinking back then everyone knew what type of personthey were. So they wouldnt marry their family off to them also the enviroment plays a BIG PART. The societyS OF THE PERSON changes due to socialisation of the time AS THIS IS THeiR ENVIROMENT. So now a days we see drinking and being boyfriend and girlfriend as not a Big deal as they did in the past as they seen it as MAD!! to everyone, HOWEVER as time changes people do so now as a muslim girl want to get married to someone it held back most time e.g sis, cousins lol no really i see it alot now a days it like get that money and your set. I was speaking to my cousin and she was like would you like to get married i said in a few years inshallah (am 17) she was like why go out have fun dont let a men tie you down me and my sister was like well i see it differently marry as a beautiful thing. Then i thought to my self its how someone thinks towards it to have a view.Then i was speaking to my other cousin she was like am 20 wallahi i should get married she is such a good sister i said go ahead and she was like How you cant go knocking on doors so i was like it should be easyer. so yeah i writing what i think please if am wrong forgive me am still developing my brian
assalam alaykum :tti_sister:
assalam alaykum :tti_sister: