lostlilly07
striving 4 Firadous
Assalamu alaikum
After reading a few post in the sister's section, I decided that there needs to be thread about this mainly because I feel that those who support Marriage first are some of the older sisters who are already married or they there are at part of there life where if they were to tried and get a degree now or masters or whatever then it would have little affect on there lives
So what should come first Marriage or Education
I am in the middle. I personally feel that education should not come before marriage, especially if there is good brother or good sister who wants to married you, then share to them your dream of getting your degree and insha'allah this person will help you achieve it.
However I do agree that for sisters it so hard to get your degree and be married at same time , especially if your husband has reach is terminal point of school system , because you have so many responiblities place upon you you have take care house, the husband, the children (if you have any) complete your school work compare to husband where his job is to provide and getting an education can be look as him providing.
At the same token, I am in my 3 year of college and I wish/ pray that I was married, because college can be stressing emotional, spirtually and physically and I often think if I had husband , I wouldn't feel so bad. I often think I would do better if I was married.
But I just want to hear what other brothers and sisters have to say on the topic
After reading a few post in the sister's section, I decided that there needs to be thread about this mainly because I feel that those who support Marriage first are some of the older sisters who are already married or they there are at part of there life where if they were to tried and get a degree now or masters or whatever then it would have little affect on there lives
So what should come first Marriage or Education
I am in the middle. I personally feel that education should not come before marriage, especially if there is good brother or good sister who wants to married you, then share to them your dream of getting your degree and insha'allah this person will help you achieve it.
However I do agree that for sisters it so hard to get your degree and be married at same time , especially if your husband has reach is terminal point of school system , because you have so many responiblities place upon you you have take care house, the husband, the children (if you have any) complete your school work compare to husband where his job is to provide and getting an education can be look as him providing.
At the same token, I am in my 3 year of college and I wish/ pray that I was married, because college can be stressing emotional, spirtually and physically and I often think if I had husband , I wouldn't feel so bad. I often think I would do better if I was married.
But I just want to hear what other brothers and sisters have to say on the topic