asalam aleykum brothers and sisters?
we have avery big problem in our family and that is arrange marriage and uinfortunately we cant do anthing about it so we need help.
this had been apractice in our family and this situation is realy happening now to my younger sister who is 16yrs old and going home to get married to someone who is much older than her and they hve never seen each other be4 and she jst finished her secondary school now.
she is very depressed becoz she wants to continue with her life and do something for herself unfortunately she cant coz she wants to make her parents happy at the same time but they dont understand her how she feeling
islamically we knw parents are important in our life but they are on our nervous and they think we ae taking the western culture like and we dont listen to them.
we would like to know your opinion and advise becoz we dont wanna hurt them too esp after bringing us up in islamic way and the elmi we hve.
maasalam for now and inshaalah may allah guide us to the right path.:tti_sister:
we have avery big problem in our family and that is arrange marriage and uinfortunately we cant do anthing about it so we need help.
this had been apractice in our family and this situation is realy happening now to my younger sister who is 16yrs old and going home to get married to someone who is much older than her and they hve never seen each other be4 and she jst finished her secondary school now.
she is very depressed becoz she wants to continue with her life and do something for herself unfortunately she cant coz she wants to make her parents happy at the same time but they dont understand her how she feeling
islamically we knw parents are important in our life but they are on our nervous and they think we ae taking the western culture like and we dont listen to them.
we would like to know your opinion and advise becoz we dont wanna hurt them too esp after bringing us up in islamic way and the elmi we hve.
maasalam for now and inshaalah may allah guide us to the right path.:tti_sister: