Abu Juwairiya you take a lot of time explaining to me and I thank you for your patience. I just wish I could see the logic of what you say but I don't know, it just doesn't seem right for me. I believe God is indeed MOST merciful, the Bible prophets all taught that God is MOST forgiving. Yet, from what you say Allah cannot be most forgiving because there is some sin that he will not forgive.. That of shirk. Which is only found in mentioned in Islam. The only time I ever heard of God being ascribed partners was when I came to know something of Islam, at the time I was greatly perplexed where such an idea came from. Or thought it could not be meant for people of the book.. Jews and Christians.. Because they always know that God is ONE, and has no partners or needs any. The idea of a "divine family" fills me with horror that any such thing could be ascribed to God, the God I know and love so well. So for this sin of shirk, it is a mystery to me. It's true in the Bible God says clearly that He alone is worthy of worship, and we must not worship any gods but Him. That is clearly directed at idolatry which was rife in pagan cultures of that time. For over thousand years God has been worshipped as ONE by jews and later the christians.
Many people fear they have committed some sin that God cannot or will not forgive, and they feel there is no hope for them, no matter what they do, sometimes people can be overcome by such feelings that they are not worthy of Gods grace. This is Satans work... He would like nothing better than to keep us worrying under this misconception. The Bible tells us truely, that if a person has this fear, he or she needs only to come before God, confess that sin, repent of it, and accept God’s promise of forgiveness. "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness" - 1 John 1:9 This verse assures us that God is ready to forgive any sin.. no matter how heinous.. if we come to Him in repentance. God is waiting with His arms open in love and compassion for us to come to Him. He will never disappoint or fail to pardon those who do. Because every created soul is precious to Him. Yeshua said He was come for the sinners, to call them to righteousness.
First, let me begin by saying 'Shirk' is not just associated with paganism and all religions and systems outside of or opposed to what He sent, but also with His Prophets who can become the object of a religion when they are just servants and no more. Here I am referring to Christianity. Allah says in the Qur'an about Jesus-
Al-Nisa' Chapter 4 : Verse 172
O People of the Book, exceed not the limits in your religion, and say not of Allah anything but the truth. Verily,
the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, was only a Messenger of Allah and a fulfilment of His word which He sent down to Mary, and a mercy from Him. So believe in Allah and His Messengers, and say not ‘
They are three.’ Desist,
it will be better for you. Verily, Allah is the only One God.
Far is it from His Holiness that He should have a son. To Him belongs whatever is in the heavens and whatever is in the earth. And sufficient is Allah as a Guardian.
As you can see, the Qur'an is saying Jesus has no divine attributes, Allah is the way, the source of guidance and the truth and Him alone and this excludes His Prophets either alongside Him or even a little less than Him. The Qur'an rejects even the use of terms such as 'Son of God', 'Mother of God', 'Sons of God' that are common in the Bible, even when the meanings and definitions are as you know not always about being part of a Godhead.
The Qur'an adds 'Believe in Allah and His Messengers' emphasising no special distinction with Jesus as the principal deliverer of the Message or source of guidance alone. All Messengers of Allah are no share in the divine prerogative. They are His Servants and nothing more.
Jesus was a means of delivering the message and not to attach anything other than that to him. He was 'only a Messenger of Allah and a fulfilment of His word'. It follows by saying he was like the other prophets before him. They had no divine significance other than being His Representatives and Jesus does not either.
In terms of 'Shirk' as something that cannot be forgiven. Allow me to demonstrate. Imagine you are a resident and citizen of a given nation, lets say in this instance the UK. You have a British passport and carry their nationality. You are a subject of the Queen of England and as such have in theory agreed to be loyal to the nation, its monarchs, the constitution and its system. When you are abroad, you travel as a British citizen and show your passport where necessary. That entails you will obey and adhere to their laws, accept the ruler/s.
Even more importantly, you as a citizen will not turn against them, take up arms, rebel, aid and abet those who wish to bring harm, ill repute and degradation to the UK. You will oppose those who have that intent, speak against them and warn the relevant authorities to be on the guard against them. To do so is 'treason' and for centuries is the worst crime that can be committed against a nation by its own people. That is patriotism if you accept it.
Here is the issue. Islam tells us that at some point between the creation of Adam and Eve and them both being sent here, two agreements were made. The first was between the human race and Allah Himself and the second between Allah and the Prophets. The first agreement was a declaration made by all human beings to Allah that they would only worship Allah, take Him as their Lord and reject all and everything not said or sent by him. This agreement entailed we would not add, amend, delete or reject anything and not create something different either. We would oppose anyone, anything and everyone who called for those things that Allah did not Himself teach us and legislate. Therefore, it follows the same rules apply to the human race in respect to Allah as it does to countries when you turn against your own country. It is the worst crime, the worst sin and the worst act possibly imaginable.
You see Allah can forgive you (in a logical sense) for any and every crime as long as you are sincere, BUT how can He forgive you and why should He, if you choose to believe in other than Him in the first place. In other cases, if you add others into the equation which He did not legislate to share sovereignty with Him, that has the same effect even when those added are members of His Government, in this case His Messengers and in your case, Jesus. To take the example of the UK once more, if you add Andrew, Charles, Edward or Anne as joint monarchs with Elizabeth, what will be the first response to it by official members of the British government. At first, you won't be taken seriously and seen as insane. If there is a sizable number of people who now insist on it, then there will be a more serious response. You will be seen as a rebel and if you insist on propagating it; the authorities will be used against you and force may be used. In the same way, if you wish to promote Jesus to what Allah says he is not, you should be prepared for the consequences that follow and not be surprised when He takes action against you as an act of treason against Him.