Asalaamu Alaykum,
I understand the difficulties surrounding some muslim brothers and sisters in adhering to the Islamic precepts in all aspects of life, but we should not marginalise as if they were truly impossible then Allah would not have ordained such matters for us as he is the Al-Aleem (The All-knowing).
O believers enter into Islam completely and do not follow the footsteps of Shaitan, surely he is your clear-cut
enemy.
If you falter after receiving the clear-cut message, then keep in mind that Allah is Mighty, Wise.
Are they waiting for Allah to come down to them in the shadow of clouds, along with the angels, and make His
decision known? Ultimately all matters will be presented to Allah for decision. (Surah Al-Baqara, Ayah 208-210)
This is a excerpt from what another muslim has said:
"The above ayah calls to people to enter Islam fully. Now one would ask the question that he has already entered Islam fully so this should not be meant for him. But just saying shahada or being born and raise in a muslim family doesn't make us a muslim. Entering Islam fully means that we have the follow the teachings of Islam without any exceptions, without any reservations or without just focusing on one part and leaving the other on ALLAH to forgive. ALLAH knows us better then we know ourselves and ALLAH knows whether its possible to follow HIS teachings or not. And as a muslim our responsibility is to try to follow the teachings of ALLAH, ALLAH never said that you have to be a 100% perfect example of it. Its not possible for us as humans are bound to make mistakes. But we just have to try our best and what is our best is already known to ALLAH even if we say something else to the world. So ALLAH will judge us based on our efforts. While in trying to follow HIS teachings, if we makes a mistake then ALLAH is certainly most merciful, most forgiving. But we should know that there is a difference between "mistake" and "intentional attempt."
Most of the times we intentionally choose not to follow certain parts of our deen because we feel that its too rigid, not possible for us to follow or just too out-dated. If things were supposed to be that way, then there was no point for ALLAH to say to us to "enter Islam fully." But as ALLAH has said that, it becomes our responsibility as a muslim to try to do that. If while doing that, we make some mistake which is not deliberate, then ALLAH will certainly forgive. If we are tempted by the wordly desires but repent as soon as we realize our mistake make repentance, then too ALLAH will certainly forgive. But whats does simple logic says for acts that are done deliberately. Does the law in our country forgives for continuous deliberate acts of breach of law? I doubt anyone would say YES or can give any such proof from human history. Then how do we develop this logic that ALLAH will also forgive deliberate disobedience of his rules. ALLAH is not just merciful and forgiving, ALLAH is also the most stern in punishment.
For those who intentionally disobeys the law of ALLAH and make different justifications of it, ALLAH says in the above third ayah that are you waiting for ALLAH to come down from the heavens to make the judgement. This will only happen at the day of judgement so ALLAH is in fact asking us if we are waiting for the day of judgement. Are we waiting for doors of repentance to close and then we are gonna realize our mistakes and our sins? Each one of us should ask this question to himself. If we are waiting for that day then we should also keep in mind that there will be no one to save us that day from the wrath of ALLAH.
Is it really a good decision to choose a temporary wordly pleasure over the period of infinity of hell?".
Alhamdulillah i found that to be quite beneficial and succinct-May Allah bless the brother.
Allah doesn't not only outlaw the evil itself, but also the steps which lead to that evil, such as when it comes to alcohol, 'avoiding' it and not sitting on a table on which alcohol is being consumed. The same extends towards Zinaa, the steps towards zinaa such as intimacy, and being alone with the other (of opposite sex that is not your mahram) are not allowed as well.
Just like a consciouss Muslim business person relies solely on Allah for his provision, and does not think twice about engaging in haraam transactions such as ribaa, or 'playing it dirty' by running others to dust, as he is convinced that from Allah alone comes provisions as He is the Provider. Therefore he knows that it may be hard to make a lot of money by being disconnected from the usury circuit, but knows that by sticking to the Truth he will have the immeasurable richness from Allah. Likewise when it comes to choosing spouses, it may be hard in some cases, but if we truly believe in Allah and pray to Him, and keep away from the haraam, then insha'Allah we will be enriched with good spouses. When we begin to justify the haraam is when problems begin, look to the example of the Sahaaba who were unwavering their belief though one of them was even placed on his back on hot coals until the skin of his back melted and extinguished the coals! We are truly weak, and impoverished, so lets turn the the Ghanni (The Rich), who of course is Allah.
O you Who believe enter into Islam completely...
May Allah forgive me if i have said anything incorrectly, and enable me to see that from Allah alone comes ease and success/
Wassalaam