Salam 3laikum Wa Ra7matullahi Wa Barakatu,
I've been reading your case akhi I can fully Understand. Even though Im not Somali but Pakistani I can really relate to you.
If a Pakistani Guy Marries a White Girl or Non-South Asian Girl who is a Revert, Most of the Guys Family Would probably Accept it, Cause they think that she would have to Adopt to the Pakistani Culture and Dress like a Pakistani with the Shawar Kameez because the Guy would Force his Culture Upon her so she would have no other choise.
But if a Pakistan Girl Married a White Guy or a Non-South Asian Guy who is a Revert, Then Most Probably the Girls Family would never accept it cause they believe that the Guy would Force his culture and dress etc upon the Pakistani Girl. Cause they believe you are what you are because of your father. There is no Islam there Only their Countries Culture and Traditions in their Hearts.
This is Unfortantely the case with Many Muslim Majority Countries. Islam isn't their Priority but their culture and Traditions are. Its Great if Both Husband and Wife were of the Same culture so their Children would not be confused where they Belong. But that should'nt be the first Priority. It should be Islam and if the Husband and Wife practise the Sunnah Properly.
I've been reading your case akhi I can fully Understand. Even though Im not Somali but Pakistani I can really relate to you.
If a Pakistani Guy Marries a White Girl or Non-South Asian Girl who is a Revert, Most of the Guys Family Would probably Accept it, Cause they think that she would have to Adopt to the Pakistani Culture and Dress like a Pakistani with the Shawar Kameez because the Guy would Force his Culture Upon her so she would have no other choise.
But if a Pakistan Girl Married a White Guy or a Non-South Asian Guy who is a Revert, Then Most Probably the Girls Family would never accept it cause they believe that the Guy would Force his culture and dress etc upon the Pakistani Girl. Cause they believe you are what you are because of your father. There is no Islam there Only their Countries Culture and Traditions in their Hearts.
This is Unfortantely the case with Many Muslim Majority Countries. Islam isn't their Priority but their culture and Traditions are. Its Great if Both Husband and Wife were of the Same culture so their Children would not be confused where they Belong. But that should'nt be the first Priority. It should be Islam and if the Husband and Wife practise the Sunnah Properly.