ummyasiin
Striving for Janatul firdous
As salaamu Alaikum,
I would like to hear from ppl (muslims) with boys in specific but with daughers as well who do not live in Islamic country or community...
I have a 11yr old son who understands tawheed to his limited understanding, How ever I cant seem to instill the importance of prayer and studying islam vs wanting to play on IMVU and other online games, I know Allah(SWT) has order to beat them at 10yr if not, however I cant grasp the concept of hitting my kids, my husband says I punish him for not getting good grades in school but find it harsh to punish him for not obeying Allah, woow, hearing that opened my eyes, however, I jus dont know what to do...I dont want him to not be muslim in the heart, however I dont want him as confortable with the life of this dunya, wii games, xbox,etc I do spoli them and my husband says thats part of the issue, he has organized diff methods for me that I instill for maybe a couple of days and than it fades too black, he does enjoy jumah I can say,,, any experience with this?? what did you do?:shymuslima1:
I would like to hear from ppl (muslims) with boys in specific but with daughers as well who do not live in Islamic country or community...
I have a 11yr old son who understands tawheed to his limited understanding, How ever I cant seem to instill the importance of prayer and studying islam vs wanting to play on IMVU and other online games, I know Allah(SWT) has order to beat them at 10yr if not, however I cant grasp the concept of hitting my kids, my husband says I punish him for not getting good grades in school but find it harsh to punish him for not obeying Allah, woow, hearing that opened my eyes, however, I jus dont know what to do...I dont want him to not be muslim in the heart, however I dont want him as confortable with the life of this dunya, wii games, xbox,etc I do spoli them and my husband says thats part of the issue, he has organized diff methods for me that I instill for maybe a couple of days and than it fades too black, he does enjoy jumah I can say,,, any experience with this?? what did you do?:shymuslima1: