My intention was not to offend anyone; it was not to start arguments it was merely to show the other side of fact. I am very sorry, if anyone was offended by my comments, as they were not for that purpose. All I wanted to show is that, YES there are people that are not Muslims but are very good, and YES there are people who try to be good Muslims but perhaps are misguided or mislead and do things not allowed in Islam. Sinning is in our blood none of us is perfect. But the best of us is he who repents. I just wanted to show that the accusations were based on IFS. Not just a few, but many, and to really judge a person like this u would have to know more about them. I wanted to just stand up for my religion. The man described in the second part had feeling of arrogance and loftiness of men over women, and that’s not true and not fair to pin on Islam, so I just wanted to show that as well. I also agree that marriage should not be based merely on lust, but tell me true, if a man has such lusts, is it not better for him to get married and do it the way that it is allowed in Islam rather then to go out and say…. Go get a girlfriend only for his lusts or Rape someone? Astagfirullah! Forgive me. I make mistakes and I tried to answer the question based on my knowledge and understanding, perhaps it is not how others felt.