Salaams,
My dear brother you have a major problem.In our days the girls were not too sharp so we got away with murder lol.Now they talk of mahr e fatimi which is equal to 1 gold Kruger coin,in South African currency about 15000.00 rands.In my days i could get like 20 wife's.
My solution is to look for one nice anty that is not too worried about the money part,Use your charm man.IF YOU DONT YOU ARE DEAD MEAT. Remember no pay no play.
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Mahr amount it dependent on what the wife desires. There is no limitation but women are encouraged to be generous and not ask for a huge amount. Some women prefer other things aside from money or jewelry. I know one sister who asked that her intended memorize a certain part of the Qur'an.
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salam aleikum
i am sorry dear brother, but you cant say about all womans that are so materialistic, unless you know each one of this earth.
i know between muslim comunity there are big demands, i heard this more then once, but a woman with a true muslim heart i think would consider her demands.
forgive me if i said anything wrong
may Allah make things easy for the brother
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