Seeking Allah's Mercy
Qul HuwaAllahu Ahud!
:salam2:wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.
i know this girl whose interested in islam.or you can say she's reverted.i dunno if it's because of the guy she's in a relationship with or because she's attracted to islam........any ways the guy is from my family and he's not a practising muslim.as far as i know he'd want her to revert so that their relatiobship becomes valid.he won't care whether or not she understands what is it that she's following actually.
he's been teaching her about our culture and that's where the problem lies.she won't be able to tell the difference between islam and culutral.she won't know about the true beauty of our faith.this is a problem because the guy told his mother that he'll be bringing her here after she graduates next year.he told her she's to learn about our ways and habits and he'll see if she adopts them.he'll settle with her if she does and would have nothing to do with her if she doesn't.it could be that he said this to his mother to calm her down who wants him to marry a local girl.but for me his saying this is more then enough to feel sorry for the one whose my sister in islam.he doesnot pay much to his faith so he doesn't care if he messes with a newbies faith either...........and hurt her feelings too
!!All they care about is whether they'll be comfortable together provided they are from different cultural backgrounds!!it is this they are training her for not Islam
since what she's learning is not really islam.she'll have to deal with a lot of cultural mess under the heading of islam.worse still i'm afraid she won't stick to the faith if things end badly between them.coz she's not aware of the it's true beauty.her islam circulates around the guy and his family.when they are gone most probably so is islam.
what i want to know is since i know about her situation,as a muslim and her sister in faith is it my duty to reach out to her.i'm asking coz if you check it in the rules of dunyia it would be"she's none of your concern so dont mess with other ppl's businesses".
i know i would have wanted someone to help me had i known what i was headed for and been in her situation.but the problem is if islam has entered her heart things may not be sound between her and the guy since they'd be following different routes.....unless he follows her in it.and that would havee me i'm in BIG trouble..........poor sis all dead!!....but this isn't the main concern anywayz.main concern is my sister.
so what am i to doleave it all or reach out to her.
hope you can help!!
wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.
i know this girl whose interested in islam.or you can say she's reverted.i dunno if it's because of the guy she's in a relationship with or because she's attracted to islam........any ways the guy is from my family and he's not a practising muslim.as far as i know he'd want her to revert so that their relatiobship becomes valid.he won't care whether or not she understands what is it that she's following actually.
he's been teaching her about our culture and that's where the problem lies.she won't be able to tell the difference between islam and culutral.she won't know about the true beauty of our faith.this is a problem because the guy told his mother that he'll be bringing her here after she graduates next year.he told her she's to learn about our ways and habits and he'll see if she adopts them.he'll settle with her if she does and would have nothing to do with her if she doesn't.it could be that he said this to his mother to calm her down who wants him to marry a local girl.but for me his saying this is more then enough to feel sorry for the one whose my sister in islam.he doesnot pay much to his faith so he doesn't care if he messes with a newbies faith either...........and hurt her feelings too
!!All they care about is whether they'll be comfortable together provided they are from different cultural backgrounds!!it is this they are training her for not Islamsince what she's learning is not really islam.she'll have to deal with a lot of cultural mess under the heading of islam.worse still i'm afraid she won't stick to the faith if things end badly between them.coz she's not aware of the it's true beauty.her islam circulates around the guy and his family.when they are gone most probably so is islam.
what i want to know is since i know about her situation,as a muslim and her sister in faith is it my duty to reach out to her.i'm asking coz if you check it in the rules of dunyia it would be"she's none of your concern so dont mess with other ppl's businesses".
i know i would have wanted someone to help me had i known what i was headed for and been in her situation.but the problem is if islam has entered her heart things may not be sound between her and the guy since they'd be following different routes.....unless he follows her in it.and that would havee me i'm in BIG trouble
..........poor sis all dead!!....but this isn't the main concern anywayz.main concern is my sister.so what am i to do
leave it all or reach out to her.hope you can help!!
wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.
