Safety tips for women

wannabe_muttaqi

A MUSLIM BROTHER
Crucial
Because of recent abductions in daylight hours,refresh yourself of these things to doin an emergency situation. This is for you, and for you to share with your wife, your children, everyone you know. After reading these 9 crucial tips , forward them to someone you care about.It never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we live in.

1 Tip from Tae Kwon Do :
The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do!

2. Learned this from a tourist guide in New Orleans If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse,
DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM
Toss it away from you....chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse
than you, and he will go for the wallet/purse.
RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car, kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won't see you, but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. (DON'T DO THIS!)
The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in
on the passenger side, put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go.
AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE.

a. If someone is in the car with a gun to your head DO NOT DRIVE OFF,
repeat: DO NOT DRIVE OFF!
Instead gun the engine and speed into anything, wrecking the car. Your Air Bag will save you. If the person is in the back seat they will get the worst of it . As soon as the car crashes bail out and run. It is better than having them find your body in a remote location.

5 A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:
A.) Be aware: look around you, look into your car, at the passenger side floor ,
and in the back seat
B..) If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door . Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
C..) Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and the passenger side.
If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back
into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot. This is especially true at NIGHT!)

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely
WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN, Preferably ! in a zig -zag pattern!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP ! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked 'for help' into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.
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9. Another Safety Point: Someone just told me that her friend heard a crying baby on her porch the night before last, and she called the police because it was late and she thought it was weird. The police told her 'Whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.' The lady then said that it sounded like the baby had crawled near a window, and she was worried that it would crawl to the street and get run over. The policeman said, 'We already have a unit on the way, whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.' He told her that they think
a serial killer has a baby's cry recorded and uses it to coax women out of their homes
thinking that someone dropped off a baby He said they have not verified it, but have had several calls by women saying that they hear baby's cries outside their doors when they're home alone at night.

Please pass this on and DO NOT open the door for a crying baby ----
This e-mail should probably be taken seriously because the Crying Baby theory was mentioned on America 's Most Wanted this past Saturday when they profiled the serial killer in Louisiana
 

kayleigh

Junior Member
The crying baby thing is an old urban legend.

Another tip:
If it's late at night or there's just not a lot of people around, try to make eye contact with everyone you come across. If you make eye contact with a would-be-attacker, they'll usually get scared off because they know you've seen them and could recognize them. This is especially helpful in staircases if you have to use one. If you're able to, it's more effective to say something to the other person like "hello" or "good evening" or whatever.

Also, even if you have no idea where you're going, walk with a purpose. If you look lost and vulnerable, you're an easier target. And try to stay confident no matter what to avoid being an easy target.

If someone approaches you and starts to harass you, for every step they take, take one back. Don't let them come near you. Put your hands out if they continue and try to keep as big a distance as possible.

If a man is on top of you and has his knees on either side of you and your legs are between his, take your legs and move them up so your knees are bent. Then hook your right foot around his calf that's on the right side of you. Grab his left shoulder, then thrust your hips and push on this shoulders to the right side as hard as you can. Unless the guy is like 500 lbs, this will almost always get him off of you, not matter how big or small you are. Women actually have a lot of power in their hips and by pushing on just one of his shoulders, he'll be thrown off balance more easily. Roll with him and follow him through the fall. Your forearm/elbow should end up somewhere near or across his throat. Once he's down, go for the throat or nose and then run.

The best places to attack are the knees, nose, and eyes. One kick to the knee in the right place and there's no way he could chase after you. If you thrust the heel of your palm into his nose he'll be in way too much pain to go after you. If all else fails, dig your thumbs into his eyes. It's gross, but if you're really being attacked, you won't care.

Usually, if you start to put up a fight, the attacker will get scared and run off. Their counting on you being too scared and weak to do anything but submit to them. If you "talk back" they'll chicken out.

If you grab their wrist and turn it so their palm is facing them and their arm is moving more towards their back, and then dig your nails into the wrist as hard as possible, they'll usually go down on their knees.

If you're alone and putting something in the trunk, try to spend as little time as possible with your head down. Don't rummage around and look for something for long periods of time. This just makes it incredibly easy for an attacker.

...I've been through a lot of self defense classes lol
 

Lovely

Junior Member
:salam2:
jazakallahu kheir

i mentally wrote down errthing, incase,hahah
and i know its useful cuz i come home very late from work, and i always run home from the bus stop,

inshllah having our trust in Allah is more powerfull then everything
:wasalam:
 

alkathiri

As-Shafaa'i(Brother)
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I hope wannabe muttaqi comes up with a thread "Safety tips for men against women"

like earplugs and stuff
 
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