iloveislam78
Junior Member
salam walakum brothers and sisters, i was extremely shocked to discover that in islam a man may marry another wife in secret from his first, why would a man keep his second wife a secret from his first wife and family, his related family, maybe even her family, and society? Keeping polygamy a secret is an issue in and of itself, but what happens when a secret wife is added to the secrecy of polygamy?
There are men who keep secret wives in Islam as they know or believe their first wives would not approve of them having second wives. They don’t want to displease their first wives and families or their related families. The woman that he wants to be with besides his first wife becomes his secret wife, the equivalent of mistress, as it is a secret marriage.
Islam elevated the status of women so whats going on here how is the status elavated??? isn't secret marrige taking the poop out of a muslim women??, . In Islam, the marriage (Nikah) should be made known to the public, and should be followed by a Walima feast-Is that not so? The Islamic system rules and regulations encourage modesty and Chastity and make an effort to close all loopholes of evils and corruption. Isn’t this the reason Islam regard publicity of marriage (Nikah) very essential? The marriage should be publicized to close all loopholes through which immorality can gain access in society.
If the marriage is not given publicity, people would bring their illicit sexual relationships also under marriage, thus opening a backdoor for the sin to find access to society. Modesty and chastity are the objects of marriage and not the gratification of sexual appetite alone.
If a husband does not let society know that he has a second wife, does it not open the door for people to suspect the man of having an affair and the woman as being his mistress? Does a man that has a secret wife deprive that wife of the honor and respect of being known as wife? Polygamy is many times secretive. Do some people add secret wives to the secret lifestyle of polygamy?
in islam doesnt a women have a right to be in a pologamous marriage or not??
how can she excercise this right if she doesnt know whats going on??
and what if a women stipulates monogamy in her marriage contract, has a women no rights???
would appreciate someone to answer, without opinion but islamic evidence inshallah
salam.
There are men who keep secret wives in Islam as they know or believe their first wives would not approve of them having second wives. They don’t want to displease their first wives and families or their related families. The woman that he wants to be with besides his first wife becomes his secret wife, the equivalent of mistress, as it is a secret marriage.
Islam elevated the status of women so whats going on here how is the status elavated??? isn't secret marrige taking the poop out of a muslim women??, . In Islam, the marriage (Nikah) should be made known to the public, and should be followed by a Walima feast-Is that not so? The Islamic system rules and regulations encourage modesty and Chastity and make an effort to close all loopholes of evils and corruption. Isn’t this the reason Islam regard publicity of marriage (Nikah) very essential? The marriage should be publicized to close all loopholes through which immorality can gain access in society.
If the marriage is not given publicity, people would bring their illicit sexual relationships also under marriage, thus opening a backdoor for the sin to find access to society. Modesty and chastity are the objects of marriage and not the gratification of sexual appetite alone.
If a husband does not let society know that he has a second wife, does it not open the door for people to suspect the man of having an affair and the woman as being his mistress? Does a man that has a secret wife deprive that wife of the honor and respect of being known as wife? Polygamy is many times secretive. Do some people add secret wives to the secret lifestyle of polygamy?
in islam doesnt a women have a right to be in a pologamous marriage or not??
how can she excercise this right if she doesnt know whats going on??
and what if a women stipulates monogamy in her marriage contract, has a women no rights???
would appreciate someone to answer, without opinion but islamic evidence inshallah
salam.