Stupid girl keeps sending me emails

[zinirah]

Before I came to Islam I was a Christian and I was best friends with this girl...now she wont stop sending me emails about killings and stuff that happened in other countries because Muslims were supposedly getting cought reading the bible and were killed...this makes me sooo mad! What is the point of sending these emails...does she think this is supposed to change my views on Islam...they are too blind to see that the peoples actions are not always in the right...if a person is doing wrong dont always blame their religion...what should i do...
and the reason why i say what should i do..because that really makes me feel to reach over and slap this girl...

 

[Musulmanin]

Before I came to Islam I was a Christian and I was best friends with this girl...now she wont stop sending me emails about killings and stuff that happened in other countries because Muslims were supposedly getting cought reading the bible and were killed...this makes me sooo mad! What is the point of sending these emails...does she think this is supposed to change my views on Islam...they are too blind to see that the peoples actions are not always in the right...if a person is doing wrong dont always blame their religion...what should i do...
and the reason why i say what should i do..because that really makes me feel to reach over and slap this girl...

I think it is because she is Christian she is doing it. It is because christians are like that sending emails and bugging other people. It is part of their religion to be annoying

Obviously, what I said above is sarcastic and should sound ludicrous. Actions of some do not necessarily represent religion. You don't like her actions, but you don't associate them with her religion and it's right, her annoying actions is not representative of her religion.
You could tell her that you don't like her sending you all these emails, and if you would think like she does, that some people's actions speak for their religion, then does it mean her annoying behaviour is part of Christianity?

 

[islamisthesolution]

Before I came to Islam I was a Christian and I was best friends with this girl...now she wont stop sending me emails about killings and stuff that happened in other countries because Muslims were supposedly getting cought reading the bible and were killed...this makes me sooo mad! What is the point of sending these emails...does she think this is supposed to change my views on Islam...they are too blind to see that the peoples actions are not always in the right...if a person is doing wrong dont always blame their religion...what should i do...
and the reason why i say what should i do..because that really makes me feel to reach over and slap this girl...[/QUOTE]

yeah why not ? just kidding
all what i have to say is ignore her .
and live your life and dont let her destroy your life and get closer to Allah and stay away from her.
:salam2:

 

[a_muslimah86]

:salam2:

the way you talked about this made me laugh..poor thing..you sound like you're really aggravated by her..

Sister..

all you need to do is the following...write an email..and put that girl back in place..

I would write..

"Well thank you for all the deeds you bigotry and bias has got me to earn, I sure do appreciate this!..I just thought I'd tell you that..

*I BEAR WITNESS THERE'S NO GOD BUT ALLAH..AND I BEAR WITNESS THAT MOHAMMAD IS HIS SERVANT AND MESSENGER*

Have an awesome day being prejudiced and socially backward

P.S. You seem to be in an urgent need of a *life*..so I will be kind to recommend to you that you step away from your computer..go out into the world..and *get one* A.S.A.P.

That's all that I would write..and then I'll get into my *options* menu in the email and BLOCK HER ADDRESS..and let her send emails 'til the day she rots..they'll all go back as errors to her..

If you want..I seriously wouldn't mind taking her email and sending her what I wrote on your behalf..I don't appreciate harrasments..so I'd be MORE THAN HAPPY to do it!..though I think if it reaches her from you..in a way..it will be an *e-slap* right across her face

 

[zinirah]

Thankyou very much...yes i will just ignore her...I like the last reply..this is a good one

 

[a_muslimah86]

One more thing sister...

If you block her or she doesn't "get it" and keeps sending you emails from another email address or something...I would print out all the emails..and take them to the nearest police station..explain that you're Muslim and this lady is practically harassing you with these emails causing you emotional distress and insist that they make her stop!!!..and have an officer knock on her door and tell her to knock it off!!!

I don't know where you live..but where I live they're pretty good about things like that..a sister here was getting harrassed about something petty..and I told her to do the same thing..and when she called the police..they IMMEDIATELY asked her to come in and bring all proofs of harassment (she was being texted and called!)..and alhamduliallah they handled it for her

So keep this in mind

 

[a_muslimah86]

Thankyou very much...yes i will just ignore her...I like the last reply..this is a good one

lol..glad you liked it sister..you we Muslims are to be nice and kind to everything and everyone..even the ants crawling on the ground..but if someone takes up the aggressor role and act it out on us..then we owe it to our honor to stop them!

 

[TheHumbleWun]

:lol:

Salaam,

What a funny story.

She needs to learn some email etiquettes. Simply just tell her to stop emailing you. If she continues, then use your secondary protocal by blocking her off your email, there is an icon button for that or change your email (if possible). Just dump her emails right into your spam inbox.

Some people are just sadly miserable and waste so much precious time.

 

[asabira]

salam wa rahmato lah wa barakatoh

in my opinion first thing is that ado3ae pray too much for allah make her far from u :tti_sister:; seconde try u ignore her in the same time as one proverb say the best way for u save ur self and u defence to ur self is that u attack her. u too u can send her some from beauties of islam and may ur hands be a reason of her hidaya

 

[asabira]

salam wa rahmato lah wa barakatoh

in my opinion first thing is that ado3ae pray too much for allah make her far from u :tti_sister:; seconde try u ignore her in the same time as one proverb say the best way for u save ur self and u defence to ur self is that u attack her by sending her some from beauties of islam and may ur hands be a reason of her hidaya

 

[alien2thisworld]

Before I came to Islam I was a Christian and I was best friends with this girl...now she wont stop sending me emails about killings and stuff that happened in other countries because Muslims were supposedly getting cought reading the bible and were killed...this makes me sooo mad! What is the point of sending these emails...does she think this is supposed to change my views on Islam...they are too blind to see that the peoples actions are not always in the right...if a person is doing wrong dont always blame their religion...what should i do...
and the reason why i say what should i do..because that really makes me feel to reach over and slap this girl...

salam
please check your PM for my advice

 

[alien2thisworld]

salam
please check your inbox for my advice.

 

[Isra]

As salamo Alaikome....

Forgive me sister but instead of getting angry with her why not try to find positive things about Islam on the internet and send them to her???? Everytime she sends you an email with something negative about Islam counter punch her with an email with positive Islamic messages. Show her the truth about Islam and maybe she can see that there is alot of negativity out there but its not the truth. Maybe you can make her see the light and think about Islam in a positive way. I believe Muslims have a duty to not just defend Islam but to prove the negative things out there are NOT representative of what Islam is all about. Besides......anger gets us nowhere and cutting her off could be losing a potential revert which would be a shame. She could become a great Muslim someday. I know I was against hearing anything about Islam in the beginning but it was just because I wasnt informed and the information I was getting was all negative.

 

[Asja]

Assalamu Allaicomu dear sister

Dear sister my advice for you is that you first try to explain her Islaam Inshallah with Allahs help,and after if she does not listen you can easily change your email adress,and she will stop bothering you.

May Allah help you sister to make a good choice.:tti_sister:

Wa Allaicomu Salam

 

[saima abdullah]

Before I came to Islam I was a Christian and I was best friends with this girl...now she wont stop sending me emails about killings and stuff that happened in other countries because Muslims were supposedly getting cought reading the bible and were killed...this makes me sooo mad! What is the point of sending these emails...does she think this is supposed to change my views on Islam...they are too blind to see that the peoples actions are not always in the right...if a person is doing wrong dont always blame their religion...what should i do...
and the reason why i say what should i do..because that really makes me feel to reach over and slap this girl...

jast spam her mails n pray for her n don't worry Allah will protect u ......seek His help ..... n sister Islam is such wonderful blessing of Allah ...... our wrong doings can't undermine its glory...........

 

[AZAM_SIDDIQUI]

come on you are being reactive - be proactive.

there are thousands of people accepting islam.send her the videos from youtube.
or send speeches of yusuf estes or dr zakir naik.
or send her surah from quran.
there are creative ways to use the net and we are on the right path. So they plan and Allah plans best. dont worry. they r jealous .everybody wants to loved by Allah. they dont know what to do.or mayb dont want to know.everytime u receive a mail.thank Allah,for making you a muslim.
and then just shoot a reply.lol

 

[AZAM_SIDDIQUI]

many times i say alhamdullillah,when ppl i dont een know send same replies to the questions posed.subhanallah.the believers are one heart,body,mind and soul.

 

[stiks]

As salamo Alaikome....

Forgive me sister but instead of getting angry with her why not try to find positive things about Islam on the internet and send them to her???? Everytime she sends you an email with something negative about Islam counter punch her with an email with positive Islamic messages. Show her the truth about Islam and maybe she can see that there is alot of negativity out there but its not the truth. Maybe you can make her see the light and think about Islam in a positive way. I believe Muslims have a duty to not just defend Islam but to prove the negative things out there are NOT representative of what Islam is all about. Besides......anger gets us nowhere and cutting her off could be losing a potential revert which would be a shame. She could become a great Muslim someday. I know I was against hearing anything about Islam in the beginning but it was just because I wasnt informed and the information I was getting was all negative.

Sound advice :ma:

 

[Asha88]

Salaam Sister,

A close Christian friend of mine sent me an email which was something like you mentioned when she knows that I am a Muslim!! I was a bit surprised she would send me that.. Anyway, I told her that it is obvious she doesn't know much about Islam and so don't waste time emailing me all that rubbish. And I told her to grab herself a copy of the Quran before passing such judgements about Muslims.

Which I doubt she did but she stopped sending me such emails anymore. The next time sis, just click delete if that girl continuously email you. Or you can just do da'wah to her.

Asha

 

[allah is with me]

Before I came to Islam I was a Christian and I was best friends with this girl...now she wont stop sending me emails about killings and stuff that happened in other countries because Muslims were supposedly getting cought reading the bible and were killed...this makes me sooo mad! What is the point of sending these emails...does she think this is supposed to change my views on Islam...they are too blind to see that the peoples actions are not always in the right...if a person is doing wrong dont always blame their religion...what should i do...
and the reason why i say what should i do..because that really makes me feel to reach over and slap this girl...

dont get scared of her ... she is just trying to make you scared .. if she sends you mails .. then ignore her ...