Assalam o Alikum sis I might be a bit too late to answer as you have already said your Shahada, but I just want to quote two verse (14-15) from Surah Al-Luqman (31) that might resolve your second question if the issue arise again.
And We have enjoined upon man [care] for his parents. His mother carried him, [increasing her] in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents; to Me is the [final] destination. (31:14)
But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them but accompany them in [this] world with appropriate kindness and follow the way of those who turn back to Me [in repentance]. Then to Me will be your return, and I will inform you about what you used to do. (31:15)
may Allah shower blessings upon you and keep you in best state of faith