It takes a lot of Westerners to Islam is that it permitted divorce, and consider it a sign of contempt for Islam as much as women, and the sanctity of marriage, Qdahm that some Muslims who Tthagafoa cultures Bank, and ignorant of the provisions of their religion, although Islam was not the first of the laws of divorce, it has brought him Jewish law before, and the world knew of date.
Having considered these Alaaúbon at it from one angle only, women are affected by it, and did not consider the topic in all its aspects, and ruled in their view, the emotion is conscious, and conscious of the wisdom of it and its causes and motive.
Islam is supposed to, first, that the marriage contract is always, and continue to exist between the marital couple, until death separates them, and therefore not permissible in Islam Taqat marriage contract to a time.
Is that Islam is bound to be a marriage for life knows that it is only prescribed to people who live on the ground, their characteristics and natures of mankind, therefore, embarked them how to get rid of this contract, if you find a living, and narrowed the ways and means fail to reform, which in this realistic all realism, both equity and equitable for both men and women.
Often what happens between a couple of reasons and motives, which makes divorce the need for a crisis, and a means Mtaana to achieve good, stable family and social each, were married men and women, then it becomes clear that their difference in morality, and dissonance in the foul, he believes each of the spouses the same stranger the other, Nafra of it, has seen one of his companion after the marriage on what does not like, do not accept the behavior of a personal or a hidden defect, has shown that infertile women can not be achieved with the highest purposes of marriage, which does not want diversity, I can afford, etc. of reasons and motives, which are not available with the love between the spouses can not be achieved with the cooperation of life, and do the rights of marriage as ordained of God,
So the divorce that is a must for the salvation of the bond of marriage that has become not achieve what is intended, and which, if committed couple to stay out, to eat rancor their hearts, and almost all of them to his companion, and sought to get rid of him, including preparing him of the means, which may be the cause of deviation of each of them, and an outlet for many of the evils and sins,
This initiated the divorce as a means to eradicate these evils, and to get rid of those evils, and replaces each wife, another husband, he may find him what he missed with the first, verifies the words of Allaah (though separate, Wigan is both a capacity, and God was widely wise).
This is the solution to these problems obscure agreed with the logic of reason and necessity, and the natures of human beings and the circumstances of life
) and i came across this hadeeth. The prophet sallallaahu `alaihi wa sallam said, "There are three matters in which it is not permissible to joke: Martiage, divorce and emancipation(of slave)."(At-tirmidhi) Al-albaanee declared it's chain of narration 'hasan'(good)
