Salam2You
Lil' Muslimah
Salaam alaikum,
I have permission of a friend to post this - it's a problem she has which she wants to remain anonymous and asked whether I could get some help by this great forum!
Okay so, sadly she has been physically and emotionally abused by her parents... She is extremely patient in how to react to them.. She hasn't snitched at all to childline or the police or anything like that.
She said she was going to get the police to her mother, and her mother said you will go to jahannam if you do......
This is very upsetting. She does absolutely nothing to her parents and tries to appreciate that they aren't worse than other parents, but I could say the same.
So basically the question is, will she go to Jahannam or get punished if she gets her parents in jail?
My friend has a 1 year old brother and she told me her mother was changing his nappy, he was crying and her mother hit him. SubhanAllah I said... How can a mother do this to a 1 year old? Is the baby even in his senses?
Please give me references onto whether she's permitted to do anything at all about this situation. I know some of you will say "be patient" but it's been going on through her whole life and I at least want to do something about it. I don't want her baby brother to get treated like this if my friend moves away for example.
Just to add on - My friend doesn't want to betray or get my parents in trouble, she actually wants her parents to get help. She feels her parents aren't normal. Any ideas?
JazakAllah khairan for reading, reply inshaAllah.
I have permission of a friend to post this - it's a problem she has which she wants to remain anonymous and asked whether I could get some help by this great forum!
Okay so, sadly she has been physically and emotionally abused by her parents... She is extremely patient in how to react to them.. She hasn't snitched at all to childline or the police or anything like that.
She said she was going to get the police to her mother, and her mother said you will go to jahannam if you do......
This is very upsetting. She does absolutely nothing to her parents and tries to appreciate that they aren't worse than other parents, but I could say the same.
So basically the question is, will she go to Jahannam or get punished if she gets her parents in jail?
My friend has a 1 year old brother and she told me her mother was changing his nappy, he was crying and her mother hit him. SubhanAllah I said... How can a mother do this to a 1 year old? Is the baby even in his senses?
Please give me references onto whether she's permitted to do anything at all about this situation. I know some of you will say "be patient" but it's been going on through her whole life and I at least want to do something about it. I don't want her baby brother to get treated like this if my friend moves away for example.
Just to add on - My friend doesn't want to betray or get my parents in trouble, she actually wants her parents to get help. She feels her parents aren't normal. Any ideas?
JazakAllah khairan for reading, reply inshaAllah.