luv4theummah
Junior Member
Dear Brothers and sister,
I hope you are happy and healthy insallah. I haven’t posted anything for a while. I have a question about how to treat fellow Muslims and none Muslims. As far as I know we have to be generous and kind to all people we come across in our life, whether they are bad or good.
Since I started practicing Islam, my friends say I gave away too much, they tell me how some people took advantage of me, stole from me. How I let them get away with it, even when I knew what they were doing. The only reason why I was doing it, was for the sake of Allah. I can’t be responsible for what other people do.
But sometimes my imaan is not very strong, that is when everything comes back to me. Is not a nice feeling, I am not used to let people walk over me. Maybe is the choice you make when you become Muslim. I try to help everybody if I can,
And it’s hard for me to say no, if someone asks for help. Just don’t like it when people are trying to take advantage of me.
Am I doing something wrong here? Can anyone relate to this situation?
How should we deal with this as Muslims
I hope you are happy and healthy insallah. I haven’t posted anything for a while. I have a question about how to treat fellow Muslims and none Muslims. As far as I know we have to be generous and kind to all people we come across in our life, whether they are bad or good.
Since I started practicing Islam, my friends say I gave away too much, they tell me how some people took advantage of me, stole from me. How I let them get away with it, even when I knew what they were doing. The only reason why I was doing it, was for the sake of Allah. I can’t be responsible for what other people do.
But sometimes my imaan is not very strong, that is when everything comes back to me. Is not a nice feeling, I am not used to let people walk over me. Maybe is the choice you make when you become Muslim. I try to help everybody if I can,
And it’s hard for me to say no, if someone asks for help. Just don’t like it when people are trying to take advantage of me.
Am I doing something wrong here? Can anyone relate to this situation?
How should we deal with this as Muslims