iloveislam78
Junior Member
Asalam walakum wa rahmatullah,
Brothers and sisters, i have a question thats kinda driving me insane i dont no why but i always feel that I MUST get the answers to my questions, i have had many sleepless nights.
I hope inshallah someone can help out or perhaps make sense of my thoughts and feelings with the will of Allah swt inshallah.
Ok my question is in quran it states that it permissible for a muslim man to marry the people of the book ie he can marry a christian or a jew providing some conditions are met yes??
For the life of me i cannot understand this?
I do not believe that any man who sincerely loves his lord could take as an intimate helper some who attributes partners to his lord?? Firstly, i cannot understand how a Muslim man could bear to live with someone who is not a muslimah? forgoing all of his rights????? what about the children he would too forgo their rights unless he completely dominates his wife no????
After looking into this i read the story of how umar may allah be pleased with him wrote to a man who was married to a jewish women, he too did not like this.
I have read some arguments about this saying that oh the wife would teach the children about the prophets, i've never heard such a ridiculous argument in my life what else would a disbeliever teach its child except disbelieve.
Now my question is when the torah was revealed to moses those who followed inshallah will be ok when the bible was revealed to isa inshsallah those who followed will be ok, but now the quran has been revealed neither chirstianity or judaism will be accepted right? because both religious have been distorted and what remains is no longer Christianity or Judaism but paganism no???? (Im not denying that their is still SOME truth remaining in both books) i mean christians and jews cant even decide who god is??
Im i wrong is believing that in actually there is no longer judaism or Christianity??
I dont think ive ever met a jew or a christian i have though met MANY pagans.
would seriously appreciate your help guy jazakallah khair.
Brothers and sisters, i have a question thats kinda driving me insane i dont no why but i always feel that I MUST get the answers to my questions, i have had many sleepless nights.
I hope inshallah someone can help out or perhaps make sense of my thoughts and feelings with the will of Allah swt inshallah.
Ok my question is in quran it states that it permissible for a muslim man to marry the people of the book ie he can marry a christian or a jew providing some conditions are met yes??
For the life of me i cannot understand this?
I do not believe that any man who sincerely loves his lord could take as an intimate helper some who attributes partners to his lord?? Firstly, i cannot understand how a Muslim man could bear to live with someone who is not a muslimah? forgoing all of his rights????? what about the children he would too forgo their rights unless he completely dominates his wife no????
After looking into this i read the story of how umar may allah be pleased with him wrote to a man who was married to a jewish women, he too did not like this.
I have read some arguments about this saying that oh the wife would teach the children about the prophets, i've never heard such a ridiculous argument in my life what else would a disbeliever teach its child except disbelieve.
Now my question is when the torah was revealed to moses those who followed inshallah will be ok when the bible was revealed to isa inshsallah those who followed will be ok, but now the quran has been revealed neither chirstianity or judaism will be accepted right? because both religious have been distorted and what remains is no longer Christianity or Judaism but paganism no???? (Im not denying that their is still SOME truth remaining in both books) i mean christians and jews cant even decide who god is??
Im i wrong is believing that in actually there is no longer judaism or Christianity??
I dont think ive ever met a jew or a christian i have though met MANY pagans.
would seriously appreciate your help guy jazakallah khair.