I have a question. I was reading up on Islam and marriage today, and I found something that said if a man says "I divorce you!" three times in a row, the woman is divorced. I appologize, but I don't remember exactly where I read this, because I read a lot of things about Islam today. Well, here is the problem. A long time ago, my husband did that to me. At the time, I looked at him like he was stupid and said "It doesn't work that way, sweetie. Sorry." We were fighting, as we did a lot during that time, and he said a lot of mean things to me.
Things did improve for awhile, but they have taken a turn for the worse recently. Last night, for example, he called me a piece of sh*t like 5 times. My husband has issues. He doesn't respect me as much as he should. I have been doing my best to follow Islam, and trying to keep calm and remind him of Allah when he talks like this to me. Sometimes, when I remind him of Allah, he says "F*ck Allah." We all know he can't talk like that! He was born muslim, and is STILL talking like that. Bad!
Anyway, today I saw this information about divorce, and I am wondering if we are even technically married anymore! We live in America, where you can't get legally divorced without going to court and getting a lawyer, so I am wondering if under all these circumstances, if we are still married or if we are divorced. He knew what he meant when he said it, but I just realized it today. Help please!
Things did improve for awhile, but they have taken a turn for the worse recently. Last night, for example, he called me a piece of sh*t like 5 times. My husband has issues. He doesn't respect me as much as he should. I have been doing my best to follow Islam, and trying to keep calm and remind him of Allah when he talks like this to me. Sometimes, when I remind him of Allah, he says "F*ck Allah." We all know he can't talk like that! He was born muslim, and is STILL talking like that. Bad!
Anyway, today I saw this information about divorce, and I am wondering if we are even technically married anymore! We live in America, where you can't get legally divorced without going to court and getting a lawyer, so I am wondering if under all these circumstances, if we are still married or if we are divorced. He knew what he meant when he said it, but I just realized it today. Help please!