I had to do this myself and its not an easy thing to do at times. A friend of mine for 14 years, after I converted to Islam was VERY Anti-Islam and was constantly bringing me down and talking badly about our prophet peace be upon him.
I love her like my own sister and I was with her nearly everyday, but i had to break ties with her to show she cannot do that. I decreased my time with her, and one day over MSN messenger (lol) I told her i couldnt take it anymore and I need to associate with like minded positive people.
They're going to be hurt, you cannot avoid that. But they will be okay. All wounds will heal with time insha allah.
Praise be to Allah,
Good for you sister, principles need sacrifice. But make sure she understands that you left her just because she doesn't like Islam and just because of that, nothing personal or worldly.
Otherwise, it would be great if you send her a message from time to time, telling her good words and maybe introducing her to Islaamic faith. Or others just like her, for that matter.
The right thing to feel is to pity those poor people for the state of disbelief in which they are drowning and never ever a feeling of pride because we're Muslims and they're not. The reason is that no one chooses their own destiny, Allah alone knows our futures.
People embrace the Islamic faith while others abandon it for something else, every single day.
This feeling of dependence upon our Creator increases our fear of disbelief and also our modesty and motivation in calling others to our faith.
That said, think about protecting your own faith before anything else. You'll never be punished if she doesn't convert to Islaam, you know what I mean. But if she converts, you'll get invaluable reward from Allah subhanah.
The Messenger peace be upon him said: "
If Allah guides a person through you, it is better for you than all that is on the earth.” Narrated Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
I congratulate you for being a Muslima and I pray Allah to guide and protect you and all of us.
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