LoveofAllah
Junior Member
:shymuslima1:
Well someone made a comment and now shaitan is taking advantage and its on my mind constantly.
I just dont feel pretty enough. this person is someone i happen to have feelings for. He told me that being muslim is not enough, unfortunately.
That two people need to connect on various levels such as chemistry and interests and perspectives.
Since he doesnt want to get married right now because he has other things on his mind i dont feel pretty enough for him.
Am I crazy to feel this way?
I think im thinking this because once i was interested in a brother a while ago and i didnt know but he was also interested in me. but i ended up setting him up with my friend( i didnt care enough to actually persue it) and when they both got married he otld her he thought i was pretty and he was thinking of asking me to marry him. But he ended up marrying my friend and she is much prettier than me.
since then its always in my head that i dont look pretty in hijab and i took it off for that reason. then i realized that looking pretty outside was just not enough.
and i came back to wearing hijab and i thank allah so much for guiding me back. Is it shaitan who keeps making me feel ugly?
I dont think the brother meant that im ugly.
whats wrong with me?
Well someone made a comment and now shaitan is taking advantage and its on my mind constantly.
I just dont feel pretty enough. this person is someone i happen to have feelings for. He told me that being muslim is not enough, unfortunately.
That two people need to connect on various levels such as chemistry and interests and perspectives.
Since he doesnt want to get married right now because he has other things on his mind i dont feel pretty enough for him.
Am I crazy to feel this way?
I think im thinking this because once i was interested in a brother a while ago and i didnt know but he was also interested in me. but i ended up setting him up with my friend( i didnt care enough to actually persue it) and when they both got married he otld her he thought i was pretty and he was thinking of asking me to marry him. But he ended up marrying my friend and she is much prettier than me.
since then its always in my head that i dont look pretty in hijab and i took it off for that reason. then i realized that looking pretty outside was just not enough.
and i came back to wearing hijab and i thank allah so much for guiding me back. Is it shaitan who keeps making me feel ugly?
I dont think the brother meant that im ugly.
whats wrong with me?