Islam!!yay
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Is being too nice of a person a little too unhealthy ?
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I think that when Im nice i see that people like to take advantage of me and sometimes maybe belittle me even. I just think that being stern and stand your ground is the only way for someone to truly respect you. Being too nice i think is a little unhealthy for someone. what do you think ? Does Islam allow someone to be stern and not listen and not to obey what everyone asks you to do or the islamic character wants to be tooo nice and bare with other people even i they like to abuse and take an advantage of you ? I feel like im being a jerk when stopped being toooo nice to people and I feel guilty for that. So can anyone help me shape a better personality for me please ?
Thank You
:salam2:
I think that when Im nice i see that people like to take advantage of me and sometimes maybe belittle me even. I just think that being stern and stand your ground is the only way for someone to truly respect you. Being too nice i think is a little unhealthy for someone. what do you think ? Does Islam allow someone to be stern and not listen and not to obey what everyone asks you to do or the islamic character wants to be tooo nice and bare with other people even i they like to abuse and take an advantage of you ? I feel like im being a jerk when stopped being toooo nice to people and I feel guilty for that. So can anyone help me shape a better personality for me please ?
Thank You