Assalaam Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah Wa Barakatuh,
I am a Pakistani woman who is wanting to marry a Bengali man. I have told my parents and they say that the cultural differences are not important, and that the only thing they ask is that he should be able to support me financially. I am in my mid twenties and do not want to wait too long before I am married, but the man I want to marry says he doesnt want to find a better job. He cannot support himself, I dont understand how he will be able to support me. I am very frustrated as when I try and talk to him about this, he gets very defensive. Now he is not talking to me, saying that I am getting on his nerves and he wants to be left alone for a while. One day he says he will fight the world for me, the next he says he doesn't know what to do. I love him very much, and I know he loves me too, I just need him to prove he can provide for me in the future. Is there any dua'a I can do for these problems to go away? Please advise me. And are all men like this?
I am a Pakistani woman who is wanting to marry a Bengali man. I have told my parents and they say that the cultural differences are not important, and that the only thing they ask is that he should be able to support me financially. I am in my mid twenties and do not want to wait too long before I am married, but the man I want to marry says he doesnt want to find a better job. He cannot support himself, I dont understand how he will be able to support me. I am very frustrated as when I try and talk to him about this, he gets very defensive. Now he is not talking to me, saying that I am getting on his nerves and he wants to be left alone for a while. One day he says he will fight the world for me, the next he says he doesn't know what to do. I love him very much, and I know he loves me too, I just need him to prove he can provide for me in the future. Is there any dua'a I can do for these problems to go away? Please advise me. And are all men like this?