Sisters,
First, allow me to apologize as my words seemed to have given the mistaken impression that I was making a judgment against Aisha. I was not.
Trying2Learn posted:...she is 14 and in 9th grade, and she knows many girls with babies and toddlers, who are all her age.
I was trying (and failed) to make an Islamic reference/reassurance about Olivia's age.....it failed miserably and I'm sorry.
Channa posted:In our times, the states of Alabama and New Hampshire allow a girl of 13 and 14 to marry with guardian consent.
I looked it up:
My home state...
Massachusetts: 18 for first marriage, 14 (male) 12 (female) with parental and judicial consent.
My current state...
Maryland: 18, 16 with parental consent.
Alabama: 18, 16 with parental consent.
New Hampshire: 18, 14 for males and 13 for females, in cases of "special cause" with parental consent and court permission.
....and for interesting information...
Egypt: 18 (per the new child protection law).
Libya: 20, lower with judicial permission on grounds of benefit or necessity and with wali's agreement.
Afghanistan: 18 for males and 16 for females, more than half of marriages involve females under 16
Iran: 18 for male, 16 for female
Iraq: 18, 15 with judicial permission if fitness, physical capacity and guardian's consent (or unreasonable objection on part of guardian) are established. (May or may not have been revised after Saddam Hussein's fall.)
Kuwait: No minimum marriage age identified; capacity to marry requires parties to be of age (puberty) and of sound mind, however, no notarisation or registration of marriage permitted where female has not reached 15 years or male 17 years.
Lebanon: 18 for males and 17 for females; scope for judicial discretion on basis of physical maturity and wali's permission from 17 for males and 9 for females; real puberty or 15/9 with judicial permission for Shi'a; 18/17 or 16/15 with judicial permission for Druze.
Pakistan: 18 for males, 16 for females.
Saudi Arabia: None currently, legislation for age 18 is being considered.
Sri Lanka: 18. However, Muslims can be excluded from this regulation because the Muslim Marriage and Divorce Act of 1951 states that a girl must be 12 years of age or have a Quazi's permission to marry before contracting into marriage. This is applicable only for Muslims in Sri Lanka[/QUOTE]
Channa,
I understand that way back then, people grew up faster, had more responsibility earlier and died alot earlier as well. Here in the states, the same held true. Girls in the western frontier were married at an equally young age and historic homes tell the story of how the average adult height and width has changed. Doorways were shorter and narrower and beds were lower to the floor.
I truly meant no disrespect to Aisha...