:salam2: and ramadan kareem ya'll,
I've never been to a Muslim funeral, but my family are not Muslim, so who will pray for me? Obviously my friends at the Masjid, but can strangers go to funerals to pray for the dead?
Abu Hurairah (Radhiallaho anhu) reported:
The Messenger of Allah (Sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam) said:
Abu Hurairah (Radhiallaho anhu) reported:
The Messenger of Allah (Sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam) said:
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The rights of one Muslim over another are five: returning the greeting of salaam, saying ‘yarhamuk Allaah (may Allaah have mercy on you)’ when he sneezes, accepting invitations, visiting the sick and attending funerals.” (Narrated by Muslim, 2625)
What about attending a funeral of a non-Muslim? My Grandmother is going downhill and I have a sneaking suspicion she will pass soon, she is 90 and has alzheimers. I will attend her funeral but as a Muslim what am I supposed to do or not do?
Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:
It is not permissible for a Muslim to attend the funeral of a non-Muslim even if it is a relative, because attending a funeral is a right that one Muslim has over another and it is a kind of showing respect, honour and friendship that it is not permissible to show to a kaafir.
Abu Taalib, the paternal uncle of the Prophet saw died, and he instructed ‘Ali to bury him, but the Prophet saw did not attend his funeral or his burial, even though Abu Taalib’s support and defence of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was well known, and even though the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) felt a great deal of compassion and mercy towards him. Nothing stopped him from doing that except the fact that Abu Taalib died in a state of kufr. In fact the Prophet saw said: “I shall certainly pray for forgiveness for you so long as I am not forbidden to do so.” Then the words were revealed (interpretation of the meaning): “It is not (proper) for the Prophet and those who believe to ask Allaah’s forgiveness for the Mushrikoon, even though they be of kin, after it has become clear to them that they are the dwellers of the Fire (because they died in a state of disbelief)” [al-Tawbah 9:113] and: “Verily, you (O Muhammad) guide not whom you like,” [al-Qasas 28:56].
Abu Dawood (3214) and al-Nasaa’i (2006) narrated that ‘Ali said: I said to the Prophet saw: Your paternal uncle, the misguided old man, has died. He said: “Go and bury your father.”
Although Islam promotes upholding ties of kinship and treating relatives kindly, it forbids close friendship between the believer and the disbeliever, so whatever is one of the forms of close friendship is forbidden, but whatever is kindness that is less than close friendship is permitted.
Imam Maalik (may Allah have mercy on him) said: “The Muslim should not wash his father if his father died as a disbeliever, or attend his funeral, or go down into his grave, unless he fears that he may be neglected, in which case he may bury him. End quote from al-Mudawwanah, 1/261
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Shak it's time for you to tell your grandmother to embrace islam, the religion of Jesus (`alayhis salam) before it's too late.
Shak it's time for you to tell your grandmother to embrace islam, the religion of Jesus (`alayhis salam) before it's too late.
Maybe it's not too late for her.As Shak said, it is probably too late for her.
The Prophet saw said: “The Pen has been lifted from three: from the sleeper until he awakens, from the child until he reaches puberty and from the insane person until he comes to his senses -- or until he comes round.” Narrated by Abu Dawood (4403), al-Nasaa’i (3432) and Ibn Maajah (2041). Classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood.
In al-Mawsoo‘ah al- Fiqhiyyah (16/99) it says, defining insanity:
With regard to (fiqhi) terminology, the fuqaha’ and usooliyyeen defined it in various ways, such as:
It is mental disorder, in such a way that the person cannot do or say things properly, except rarely.
And it was said that insanity is loss of the ability to distinguish between right and wrong or to recognize their consequences.
The author of al-Bahr al-Raa’iq defined it as loss of the ability to understand issues from all angles. End quote.
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What about attending a funeral of a non-Muslim? My Grandmother is going downhill and I have a sneaking suspicion she will pass soon, she is 90 and has alzheimers. I will attend her funeral but as a Muslim what am I supposed to do or not do?
Maybe it's not too late for her.