Asalaamu alaikum wa rahmatulahi wa barakatuhu. I have not been here in a long time! I have a question and need some advice:
I dont want to work, but my husband wont let me quit my job. Want to stay home and take care of the home and my 4 year old son. Work also just stresses me out and makes me very very tired and unable to clean and cook. It depresses me, too. I feel like working is the hardest thing in the world, and I hate it. I dont like being away from home and my son for 10 hours a day- it's horrible and makes me feel so guilty. My husband doesnt want me to quit, though. I make more money than him, and when I work, we have lots of extra money to spend on going out to dinner and new clothes and things like that. While i also enjoy those things, I would rather be poor and stay at home. My husband works full time and goes to college part time. He refuses to find a better job in which he could support his family better, which leaves me working my tail off and torn up in my heart and soul. And it leaves a strain on the marriage and makes it difficult to be the mom and wife I need to be. Please give me some advise. Can't I demand that he support me properly so I dont have to work?
I dont want to work, but my husband wont let me quit my job. Want to stay home and take care of the home and my 4 year old son. Work also just stresses me out and makes me very very tired and unable to clean and cook. It depresses me, too. I feel like working is the hardest thing in the world, and I hate it. I dont like being away from home and my son for 10 hours a day- it's horrible and makes me feel so guilty. My husband doesnt want me to quit, though. I make more money than him, and when I work, we have lots of extra money to spend on going out to dinner and new clothes and things like that. While i also enjoy those things, I would rather be poor and stay at home. My husband works full time and goes to college part time. He refuses to find a better job in which he could support his family better, which leaves me working my tail off and torn up in my heart and soul. And it leaves a strain on the marriage and makes it difficult to be the mom and wife I need to be. Please give me some advise. Can't I demand that he support me properly so I dont have to work?