Male dresscode

ShyHijabi

Junior Member
Salaam,

There is often a superfocus on how females should dress in Islam on this board but I rarely see anything regarding our brothers. I was reading up on the latest fatwas and found a fairly well written fatwa regarding this very subject. I found it quite enlightening and insh'Allah, so shall everyone else. :)

In Qur'an, it has clearly mentioned, how Women should be dressed at any country or environment whether in a Islamic country or Non-Islamic country. I want to know, how should Men be dressed at any country or environment whether in a Islamic country or in a Non-Islamic country?.


Praise be to Allaah.

There follows a summary of the rulings on dress for men. We ask Allaah to make it sufficient and beneficial.

1. The basic principle concerning everything that is worn is that it is halaal and permissible, except for that concerning which there is a text to state that it is haraam, such as silk for males, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “These two [gold and silk] are forbidden for the males of my ummah and permissible for the females.” Narrated by Ibn Maajah, 3640; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Ibn Maajah. Similarly it is not permissible to wear the skin of a dead animal (one that has died of natural causes) unless it has been tanned. With regard to wearing clothes made of wool, goat hair and camel hair, these are pure and permissible. For more information on the use of the skin of dead animals after tanning, please see question no. 1695 and 9022.

2. It is not permissible to wear thin or see-through clothing that does not conceal the ‘awrah.

3. It is haraam to imitate the mushrikeen and kuffaar in their manner of dress, so it is not permissible to wear clothing that is unique to the kuffaar.

It was narrated that ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Amr ibn al-‘Aas said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) saw ‘Ali wearing two garments dyed with safflower and said: “These are garments of the kuffaar; do not wear them.”

Narrated by Muslim, 2077.

4. It is haraam for women to imitate men and men to imitate women in the way they dress, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) cursed the men who imitate women and the women who imitate men.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5546.

5. It is Sunnah for a Muslim to start with the right when dressing, and to say, Bismillaah (In the name of Allaah), and to start with the left when taking clothes off.

It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “When you get dressed and when you do wudoo’, start on the right.” Narrated by Abu Dawood, 4141; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 787.

6. It is Sunnah for the one who is putting on a new garment to thank Allaah and make du’aa’.

It was narrated that Abu Sa’eed said: When the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) put on a new garment, he would call it by its name, whether it was a turban, a shirt or a cloak, then he would say: “Allaahumma laka al-hamd anta kasawtanihi as’aluka khayrahu wa khayri ma suni’a lah wa a’oodhu bika min sharrihi wa sharri ma suni’a lah (O Allaah, to You be all praise. You have clothed me with it. I ask You for the good of it and the good for which it was made, and I seek refuge with You from the evil of it and the evil for which it was made).”

Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1767; Abu Dawood, 4020; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 4664.

7. It is Sunnah to pay attention to keeping one's clothes clean, without feeling arrogant or exaggerating about that.

It was narrated from ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No one will enter Paradise in whose heart is a mustard-seed of arrogance.” A man said: “What if a man likes his clothes to look nice and his shoes to look nice?” He said: “Allaah is Beautiful and loves beauty; arrogance means rejecting the truth and looking down on people.”

Narrated by Muslim, 91.

8. It is mustahabb to wear white clothes

It was narrated that Ibn ‘Abbaas said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Wear white clothes, for they are the best of your clothes, and shroud your dead in them.”

Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 994, hasan saheeh. This is what the scholars regarded as mustahabb. Also narrated by Abu Dawood, 4061; Ibn Maajah, 1472.

9. It is haraam for the Muslim man to let any garment he wears hang down beneath his ankles (an action known as isbaal); the limit for any garment is the ankles.

It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said; “Whatever of the lower garment is beneath the ankles is in the Fire.”

Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5450.

It was narrated from Abu Dharr that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “There are three to whom Allaah will not speak on the Day of Resurrection and will not look at them or praise them, and theirs will be a painful torment.” The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) repeated it three times. Abu Dharr said: “May they be doomed and lost; who are they, O Messenger of Allaah?” He said: “The one who lets his garment hang beneath his ankles, the one who reminds others of favours he has done, and the one who sells his product by means of false oaths.”

Narrated by Muslim, 106.

10. It is haraam to wear garments of fame and vanity, which means a garment that stands out from others so that people will look at the wearer and he will become known for it.

It was narrated that Ibn ‘Umar said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever wears a garment of fame and vanity, Allaah will dress him in a garment like it on the Day of Resurrection.”

According to another version, “…then set it ablaze.” And according to a third version, “will dress him in a garment of humiliation.”

Narrated by Abu Dawood, 4029; Ibn Maajah, 3606 and 3607; classed as hasan by Shaykh al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Targheeb, 2089.

The brother may also refer to the section on Dress in this website, where there is more information.

And Allaah knows best.

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http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/36891
 

kashif_nazeer

~~~Alhamdulillah~~~
Salaam,

There is often a superfocus on how females should dress in Islam on this board but I rarely see anything regarding our brothers. I was reading up on the latest fatwas and found a fairly well written fatwa regarding this very subject. I found it quite enlightening and insh'Allah, so shall everyone else. :)



http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/36891

Wa alaykumassalaam
OMG!!
Thanks a lot sister for sharing that.
Its a great reminder,Allah does not like the arrogant ones.
Wonderful article.
JazakAllah Khayr :)
Ma'salamat
 

fada_all

Junior Member
salam alikom

baraka allaho fiki dear sister for sharing with us this beneficial thread as a reminder for us , may allah swt reward u khairan insha allah
jazaki allah kol khair
salam alikom
 

ShyHijabi

Junior Member
:salam2:

I thought I'd give this a bump since we had a small scuffle in the thread about women wearing hijab. I think we women need to honor ourselves enough to cover our bodies but I also think our brothers need reminding that they have a dresscode as well.
 

Aapa

Mirajmom
Assalaam walaikum,

I have to agree with you 100% sister.

I am always amazed how men come into the masjid in jeans and t-shirts. Here we are all dolled up and covered ( like old fashioned nuns) and the men come in scruffy.

Nothing looks better on a man than to look like a man. T-shirts and jeans are ok for the college kid look; at least entering the masjid know why you are going there.
 

BrotherInIslam7

La Illaha Illa Allah
Staff member
:salam2:

I thought I'd give this a bump since we had a small scuffle in the thread about women wearing hijab. I think we women need to honor ourselves enough to cover our bodies but I also think our brothers need reminding that they have a dresscode as well.

:wasalam:

Thanks for the beneficial reminder. JazakAllahu Khayran..

Wasalaamalaykum waa rahmatullahi
 

Nayyararsi

Kashmiri Brother
Assalaam walaikum,

I have to agree with you 100% sister.

I am always amazed how men come into the masjid in jeans and t-shirts. Here we are all dolled up and covered ( like old fashioned nuns) and the men come in scruffy.

Nothing looks better on a man than to look like a man. T-shirts and jeans are ok for the college kid look; at least entering the masjid know why you are going there.

Sister whats the problem in praying in Jeans and T shirts if they come under the category of permissible clothes can you please explain...
 

Aapa

Mirajmom
Assalaam walaikum,

The brothers come to jumma in sloppy attire. The t-shirts are short and not always suitable. Why are they going to the masjid with writing on the t-shirt. I don't care how cool it is.
Brother, the fashion craze here are skinny jeans..I saw a brother in skinny jeans at the masjid. I have forbidden my sons from wearing them. And they, for once in their teenage brilliance, have agreed. Men do not look right in skinny jeans.

In a masjid..dress to pray not to be the centerfold of GQ.

( the sisters were given a slight warning by our imam to dress more appropriately, and I had to agree..now it is time for the brothers to step it up a bit)
 

salapuddin35

Junior Member
It's the norm in my country to wear jeans and tshirts and you only wear slacks and leather shoes and long sleeves to a social event.

as far as silk and gold are concern you could be referring to the chinese they love to wear those things. but for the native citizens i doubt you will be seeing wearing silk except for the silk necktie.
 

Aapa

Mirajmom
Assalaam walaikum,

It may be the norm but men have to be aware they have a dress code. And tight jeans. short t-shirts are not good. Long shirts, tunics, athletic shirts are ok.

Why Muslim men want to look European is beyond me.
 

steelieboy

New Member
Assalamu Alaikum
May Allah reward you for the reminder sister. Very beneficial.

It amazes me the amount of men that only show up to the masjid on Jumah with a clean shaven face, shirts with inappropriate writing or pictures, backward hats and pants so long that they stand on them.

As for the skinny jeans, it's another way to imitate Kaffir women under the guise of style.
 

DanyalSAC

Junior Member
A couple of my thobes were purchased online from a well known Saudi company that lists many of their garments as being made "50% silk, 50% cotton". The thobes I chose were cotton. I find it a bit ironic that a company makes garments often associated with Islam out of a material that is haraam to us.

However I do have to admit many if not most of my pants hang below my ankles. Actually if I point my foot my pants go almost to my toes. That's because most of the time companies that make trousers of my waist size think that if I'm that big around I MUST be 6'8" tall.

The good news (and yes, this is a shameless plug for myself) is that in the past year I've lost almost 40 lbs alhamdulillah soooo hopefully soon I can wear regular and not "Big and Tall" sizes inshallah!

But what gets to me is when the brothers show up in sweats (often dirty or stained) or in basketball shorts. I remember once when a handful of the boys from the school were playing soccer. They responded to the adhan and came to prayer in soccer shorts, most of them JUST to the knees. The shakyh told them to go pray at home.

But my biggest peeve is the brothers who go into rukoo or sujood and show the world their plumber's crack. Its far more prevalent than you would think. It is sunnah and therefore does not break your salaat if you lean forward and pull their shirt down over their exposure...but I usually notice it when someone is doing their sunnah prayer and when they go into sujood they crack a big smile.
 
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