simple question about girly gazing!!!!

Islam!!yay

Junior Member
:salam2:

So theres this girl in my school (Im a sophmore(10) by the way in highschool) and she looks pretty .....through my eyes to say the least .......Now I know Allah swt told us to lower our gaze .....But When I look at her , I dont think of any fantasy or sexual thoughts about her . Only looking at her pretty little face and admiring it and also I dont look at her curves and all ..no way , only her face

Would that be considered as haram ?(hope not :) )
 

Nazihah

Be A Stranger
Waalaikumsalam Brother,

Admiring will fall into love. My advice is not to do it again.


"Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: And Allah is well acquainted with all that they do." Al-Noor:30
Sahih Bukhari Volume 8, Book 74, Number 247: Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Abbas:
Al-Fadl bin 'Abbas rode behind the Prophet as his companion rider on the back portion of his she camel on the Day of Nahr (slaughtering of sacrifice, 10th Dhul-Hijja) and Al-Fadl was a handsome man. The Prophet stopped to give the people verdicts. In the meantime, a beautiful woman From the tribe of Khath'am came, asking the verdict of Allah's Apostle. Al-Fadl started looking at her as her beauty attracted him. The Prophet looked behind while Al-Fadl was looking at her; so the Prophet held out his hand backwards and caught the chin of Al-Fadl and turned his face (to the owner sides in order that he should not gaze at her. She said, "O Allah's Apostle! The obligation of Performing Hajj enjoined by Allah on His worshipers, has become due (compulsory) on my father who is an old man and who cannot sit firmly on the riding animal. Will it be sufficient that I perform Hajj on his behalf?" He said, "Yes."
Sahih Bukhari Volume 8, Book 74, Number 248: Narrated Abu Said Al-Khudri:
The Prophet said, 'Beware! Avoid sitting on the roads." They (the people) said, "O Allah s Apostle! We can't help sitting (on the roads) as these are (our places) here we have talks." The Prophet said, ' l f you refuse but to sit, then pay the road its right ' They said, "What is the right of the road, O Allah's Apostle?" He said, 'Lowering your gaze, refraining from harming others, returning greeting, and enjoining what is good, and forbidding what is evil."


May Allah s.w.t strengthen our Eeman and make us among the righteous. Ameen
 

rightpath_357

Junior Member
I'm sorry brother- but you can't. Shaytan will MAKE you do worse trust me, it's like alchohol or drugs or something.:(

Any time you want to gaze at something beautiful- gaze at your mother!!!!!!:D
 

mmasood65

New Member
Aslamoalikum
who knows just gazing when change in feelings and then more more and more----
Allah subhan u talla help you to cantrole your eyes.Amen
 

rayray

Junior Member
A.S. AKI, I just wanna let you know that It is not okay to gaze at a girl. the unrestrained glance is the posioned arrow of the Shaytan.


By the way THe "CO-exist" logo you have on ur name display is one promoted by the Universal Unitarianist, AKA homosexual liberals just wanted to let you know AKI

Wow, Islamic restrictions are harsh....

what about homosexuals?
 

rayray

Junior Member
:salam2:

Brother, Islamic restrictions are not harsh, homosexuality is not allowed in Islam because Allah has created a man for a woman and a woman for a man. homosexuality destroys the natural system of human beings which Allah has created inside us. A man to marry a woman, and a woman to marry a man. :) and Allah doesn't likes the one who crosses his/her limits.

:wasalam:


eh I don't know.... it is scientifically proven that homosexuality occurs naturally...and God created nature....
 

rayray

Junior Member
Brother, homosexuality is inhumane even though it comes naturally, it is not normal, it is odd. And not Natural part of what Allah has created. And it is also scientifically proven that those who are homosexuals, their genetic code is slightly different than what a normal humane person is. go check wherever you want.

:wasalam:

Sister I am :p

Uhm, is it their fault that their genetic code is like that? Are you also insinuating that homosexuals are less of a human? that's the reasoning Hitler used to justify the killing of Jews... and why females were opressed before..... people thought they were the "lesser human"


I'm just saying
 

a_stranger

Junior Member
Everything Allah sobhanahu wa taala created is for a wisdom : Quran explain things :

11 The Creator of the heavens and the earth. He has made for you mates from yourselves, and for the cattle (also) mates. By this means He creates you (in the wombs). There is nothing like Him; and He is the All-Hearer, the All-Seer.
12 To Him belong the keys of the heavens and the earth. He enlarges provision for whom He wills, and straitens (it for whom He wills). Verily He is the All-Knower of everything.
Translation of the meanings of Quran Ash-Shura 53

Male and Female sre created for a wisdom ....deviation form the true nature Allah sobhanahu created things ruin Life ...which Allah sobhanahu wa taala made Sacred that is why Allah sobhanahu wa taala made it a great sin .


The ignorance of the true purpose of creation drive many people nowadays to act against their true nature following steps of shaytan .
 

BinteShafi

Left long ago
eh I don't know.... it is scientifically proven that homosexuality occurs naturally...and God created nature....


sickness occurs naturally...Allah created sickness and HE also created cure....so this sickness should also be cured.

What is Christianity's point of view about this (Just asking as you think that islam is harsh in this regard)

Thanks,
 

rayray

Junior Member
sickness occurs naturally...Allah created sickness and HE also created cure....so this sickness should also be cured.

What is Christianity's point of view about this (Just asking as you think that islam is harsh in this regard)

Thanks,

Well, Christianity's point of view towards homosexuality is pretty much the same. They don't tolerate it.

The "harsh" I was talking about regards the proper way of how men and women should interact. Even looking should be controlled... or prohibited???

I studied in an exclusive school for girls back in HS, and although I have a lot of brothers and male cousins, lack of interaction with the opposite sex not within your kin could result to certain social disabilities.
 

Abdul25

Logical Believer
Well, Christianity's point of view towards homosexuality is pretty much the same. They don't tolerate it.

The "harsh" I was talking about regards the proper way of how men and women should interact. Even looking should be controlled... or prohibited???

I studied in an exclusive school for girls back in HS, and although I have a lot of brothers and male cousins, lack of interaction with the opposite sex not within your kin could result to certain social disabilities.

well i agree with u, but this is the way Islam is, we have to follow as to whatever has been ordered, and if we don't follow or make excuses, then we are no more believers, we don't have to use logic in deen, we must have faith and follow, if we start using logic then there may come many questions which no body is able to answer and asking those questions or thinking abt them logically may destroy our faith as a Muslim.

so follow what has been ordered.
 

mohammed 1234

Darkness to Light
:salam2:

The proof comes from the words of Allah az zowjal and what is better than the word of Allah!!!

If you look to the people of Lot and there acts that brought on the wrath of Allah so Allah destroyed them for there sodomy acts.

Surah Al Araf

:bismillah1:

وَلُوطًا إِذْ قَالَ لِقَوْمِهِ أَتَأْتُونَ الْفَاحِشَةَ مَا سَبَقَكُم بِهَا مِنْ أَحَدٍ مِّن الْعَالَمِينَ ﴿٨٠﴾
80. And (remember) Lout (Lot), when he said to his people:
"Do you commit the worst sin such as none preceding you has committed in the 'Alamîn (mankind and jinns)?
إِنَّكُمْ لَتَأْتُونَ الرِّجَالَ شَهْوَةً مِّن دُونِ النِّسَاء
81. "Verily, you practise your lusts on men instead of women.
بَلْ أَنتُمْ قَوْمٌ مُّسْرِفُونَ ﴿٨١﴾
Nay, but you are a people transgressing beyond bounds (by committing great sins)."
وَمَا كَانَ جَوَابَ قَوْمِهِ إِلاَّ أَن قَالُواْ أَخْرِجُوهُم مِّن قَرْيَتِكُمْ
82. And the answer of his people was only that they said:
"Drive them out of your town,
إِنَّهُمْ أُنَاسٌ يَتَطَهَّرُونَ ﴿٨٢﴾
these are indeed men who want to be pure (from sins)!"
فَأَنجَيْنَاهُ وَأَهْلَهُ إِلاَّ امْرَأَتَهُ كَانَتْ مِنَ الْغَابِرِينَ ﴿٨٣﴾
83. Then We saved him and his family, except his wife;
she was of those who remained behind (in the torment).
وَأَمْطَرْنَا عَلَيْهِم مَّطَرًا
84. And We rained down on them a rain (of stones).
فَانظُرْ كَيْفَ كَانَ عَاقِبَةُ الْمُجْرِمِينَ ﴿٨٤﴾
Then see what was the end of the Mujrimûn (criminals, polytheists, sinners, etc.

:hawla:

Allah yahdik
May Allah put you on the right path
 

rayray

Junior Member
The proof comes from the words of Allah az zowjal and what is better than the word of Allah!!!

If you look to the people of Lot and there acts that brought on the wrath of Allah so Allah destroyed them for there sodomy acts.

Surah Al Araf explain

وَلُوطًا إِذْ قَالَ لِقَوْمِهِ أَتَأْتُونَ الْفَاحِشَةَ مَا سَبَقَكُم بِهَا مِنْ أَحَدٍ مِّن الْعَالَمِينَ ﴿٨٠﴾
80. And (remember) Lout (Lot), when he said to his people:
"Do you commit the worst sin such as none preceding you has committed in the 'Alamîn (mankind and jinns)?
إِنَّكُمْ لَتَأْتُونَ الرِّجَالَ شَهْوَةً مِّن دُونِ النِّسَاء
81. "Verily, you practise your lusts on men instead of women.
بَلْ أَنتُمْ قَوْمٌ مُّسْرِفُونَ ﴿٨١﴾
Nay, but you are a people transgressing beyond bounds (by committing great sins)."
وَمَا كَانَ جَوَابَ قَوْمِهِ إِلاَّ أَن قَالُواْ أَخْرِجُوهُم مِّن قَرْيَتِكُمْ
82. And the answer of his people was only that they said:
"Drive them out of your town,
إِنَّهُمْ أُنَاسٌ يَتَطَهَّرُونَ ﴿٨٢﴾
these are indeed men who want to be pure (from sins)!"
فَأَنجَيْنَاهُ وَأَهْلَهُ إِلاَّ امْرَأَتَهُ كَانَتْ مِنَ الْغَابِرِينَ ﴿٨٣﴾
83. Then We saved him and his family, except his wife;
she was of those who remained behind (in the torment).
وَأَمْطَرْنَا عَلَيْهِم مَّطَرًا
84. And We rained down on them a rain (of stones).
فَانظُرْ كَيْفَ كَانَ عَاقِبَةُ الْمُجْرِمِينَ ﴿٨٤﴾
Then see what was the end of the Mujrimûn (criminals, polytheists, sinners, etc.

Allah yahdik
May Allah put you on the right path

Amazing! I know this story :D
 
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