oh yesI'm patient,I have no problems with my husband,amybe you thought that I'm in crise...noooo.I'm happily married.before making this step I felt in love,then I chose to get married because I wanted to share everything(problems,laughs...)I knew Islam before getting married but I wasn't so informed about the "surrenderness" of a wife,by the way I came from a world of disbeliever,I was pride,aggressive because I feared the judge of others...I acquired sureness after getting married and after having accepted Islam,I surrended only to Allah's Will,s if Death will come,I'll be here to wait,but to my husband...how can I be slave of the man I love???yes,I'm slave of love,but never his slave,I can't allow to anybody to put his feet over my head,because believe to me,I suffred too much when I was a girl...and now,I'm like that child to whom has been denied his childhood.I'm fortunate to a man who is loyal,sensitive,in love of me.if he didn't love me,why should he maintain me in his house?could you tolerate somebody who offends you everyday or never give tou a flower??mayb you can surrender for few months,but in front of the indifference it's better to finish the marriage.