Beating Wife

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Mrmuslim

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lecture by Br.Abdur Raheem Green. Many accuse that islam tells men to beat their wives...they don't know....and they judge this by "some" ignorant "Muslim a lot of Muslim need to learn how to deal with thier wives.

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I hope by now people understand !!
wa salaam alikom
 
najbc

najbc

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Assalamu alaykum,

I would view what you psot if they were picture or videos. But I am just curiosity to know why some men beat their wives, does it give them senses of power. This sister I know she is white American who find Islam and she marry this muslim man who is from some where in mideast, and he took her to his country and beat her up almost everyday. How can a sister know if the guy she is going to marry is abusive, I heard some of them beat wives for nothing and fun. Were these men told or taught in their childhood home that it is ok to disrespect and beat their wives up. I am trying to figure out what is really is behind these abuse. how can you beat someone you love and marry, that is unbelievable. I hope no sister ever face abuse or anyone.
 
Globalpeace

Globalpeace

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Asslamo Allaikum,

When we used to live in Saudia our neighbor (top flat) used to beat his wife everyday and the Mrs used to ask me what are they doing? I used to say, don't know...don't worry...

The whole apartment complex knew about it!

When my wife came back to UK I went upstairs, kicked the door open, walked into their bedroom; threw a sheet on the woman because she was without a Hijab crying & sobbing; grabbed the guy; shoved him aginst the wall and said, "I am trying to SLEEP; If I hear this AGAIN and have to WAKE up in the middle of the night, I will BREAK your face!"

For the next month or so; no noise; till I came back to UK.

Don't know what happened afterwards....
 
Albint_Almuslima

Albint_Almuslima

Im Proud 2 B Me!
:salam2:

Some men like beating their wives because they want to feel superior, they want to feel or show that they have power over others.

Please, if my husband ( Insha Allah when i get married) tries to lay a finger ( beat) on me for no logical reason, u would see him flying out the window.:SMILY346:

No man and i mean NO MAN has a right to touch his wife, because she is not his slave nor is she his little toy. Women have rights and these rights were not found on the streets these rights were given to them by Al-RAHMAN, Allah (Sabhanahu wa ta'ala). And no Human being should ever break those rights, because they are not challenging a person they are challenging Allah and NO ONE DARES CHALLENGE ALLAH!!!!
 
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abdallahbilal

Long Live Palestine
Albint_Almuslima said:
:salam2:

Some men like beating their wives because they want to feel superior, they want to feel or show that they have power over others.

Please, if my husband ( Insha Allah when i get married) tries to lay a finger ( beat) on me for no logical reason, u would see him flying out the window.:SMILY346:

No man and i mean NO MAN has a right to touch his wife, because she is not his slave nor is she his little toy. Women have rights and these rights were not found on the streets these rights were given to them by Al-RAHMAN, Allah (Sabhanahu wa ta'ala). And no Human being should ever break those rights, because they are not challenging a person they are challenging Allah and NO ONE DARES CHALLENGE ALLAH!!!!
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:salam2:
Your case proves one can be a Muslim and a Feminist at the same time :)
As time goes, i think the tables will be turned and we'll see women beating their hubbies instead ;)
 
Globalpeace

Globalpeace

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Tough Little-Sis!

Asslamo Allaikum,

Sorry for commenting on your font colours...

I take it all back.:shymuslima1:

P.S: Weak men hit woman because they can't prove themselves otherwise.

Albint_Almuslima said:
:salam2:

Some men like beating their wives because they want to feel superior, they want to feel or show that they have power over others.

Please, if my husband ( Insha Allah when i get married) tries to lay a finger ( beat) on me for no logical reason, u would see him flying out the window.:SMILY346:

No man and i mean NO MAN has a right to touch his wife, because she is not his slave nor is she his little toy. Women have rights and these rights were not found on the streets these rights were given to them by Al-RAHMAN, Allah (Sabhanahu wa ta'ala). And no Human being should ever break those rights, because they are not challenging a person they are challenging Allah and NO ONE DARES CHALLENGE ALLAH!!!!
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Albint_Almuslima

Albint_Almuslima

Im Proud 2 B Me!
abdallahbilal said:
:salam2:
Your case proves one can be a Muslim and a Feminist at the same time :)
As time goes, i think the tables will be turned and we'll see women beating their hubbies instead ;)
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Im not a feminist, but come on be honest what am i supposed to do, let my husband ( La samah Allah) hit me!!

Im sorry, but u see i aint that type of person that shuts up when my rights are violated. U could even ask those girls i beat up a few years back when they tried to dicriminate against me because i wear a hijab! LOL
 
justoneofmillion

justoneofmillion

Junior Member
asassalam,well while i was in france i had this neighbour he wasn`t really my next door neighbour he was living on the opposite side of the street on that day his girlfriend was screaming so loud it was a spectacle for the whole street my aunt which is an old lady went of fo the balcony to say "ca sufit ,ca suffit" like it is enough stop he came out and started swearing at my aunt in italian and i heard that while i was under the shower so i put quickly my clothes on scared that she was in trouble or something like that when i realised what was going on i went to the house kicked the door and found him in the process of strangelling her her nose was full of blood her clothes all teared apart i was trying to separate them the women couldn`t even breath anymore gave him a head kick took my belt and started slaping him on blank butt he only had boxer shorts on i was so mad that i didn`t stop until my older cousin came and held me from him the house was full of stinky whiskey bottles everywhere,alhamdulillah my aunt had called the cops by the mean time i had to go testify at the station his girlfriend (which i knew from the perfume store as she used to work there part time i guess ) was there also the poor thing was shocked she couldn`t even speak they took him to an alcoholic rehabilitation center he happend to be an italian american who has sunk deep into alcholism
after his wife had left him in the US taking everything he owned house daughter...etc i don`t know what happened to him afterwards who cares all i know is that his girl friend which was a student from russia is married to my cousin now her name is swetlana and alhamdulillah she is now muslim and does an amazing menthol tea everytime i go there..lol may allah swt bless them both.:)
 
ShyHijabi

ShyHijabi

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It is a sad state of affairs when a man proves his weakness by raising his hand to a woman. I wish to as a question, and please I ask forgiveness if I offend.

I've noticed that a lot of domestic abuse cases have the term Saudi attached to it. Is beating one's wife considered culturally acceptable in Saudi Arabia? Is there a higher incidence of wife beating in the Middle Eastern cultures?

~Sarah
 
Globalpeace

Globalpeace

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Training Sisters to beat their husbands!

Asslamo Allaikum,

If you are a Muslim Sister in the Midlands (UK), Insha’Allah I can put you in touch with someone who can train you to take your husband OUT COLD!

On a serious note! If you are interested in Sisters Self-defence classes; there are some in Birmingham.

I have heard some really funny (but painful) stories about husbands/wives trying it on each other…

1) Trust me being hit under your jaw bone with the flat part of your palm is NOT ENJOYABLE; it bloody hurts.

2) Your nose being pushed back at a rapid speed is no fun either

Both 1 & 2 require not much force.
 
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eemaan1

Junior Member
:salam2:

here's the thing though, after watching these videos and listening/reading endless arguements abt this topic, i cant help but wonder.... if speaking to her (shud i say sweet talking), removing yourself from the bed u share etc etc, hasnt solved the problem... how is tapping with a toothpick going to to solve it?!!!:confused:

som1 explain this to me pliz.....
 
Globalpeace

Globalpeace

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W-Salam,

Its very simple;

Rasul-ullah (Sallaho Alaihe Wassalam) NEVER beat his wives.

If anyone has a problem with their wife; try to resolve it within yourselves.

Then get an arbitrator involved who can try to solve it

If that doesn’t work & the two of them are unhappy then seek a divorce;

WHAT’S THE POINT of beating people up?

eemaan1 said:
:salam2:

here's the thing though, after watching these videos and listening/reading endless arguements abt this topic, i cant help but wonder.... if speaking to her (shud i say sweet talking), removing yourself from the bed u share etc etc, hasnt solved the problem... how is tapping with a toothpick going to to solve it?!!!:confused:

som1 explain this to me pliz.....
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abdallahbilal

Long Live Palestine
eemaan1 said:
:salam2:

here's the thing though, after watching these videos and listening/reading endless arguements abt this topic, i cant help but wonder.... if speaking to her (shud i say sweet talking), removing yourself from the bed u share etc etc, hasnt solved the problem... how is tapping with a toothpick going to to solve it?!!!:confused:

som1 explain this to me pliz.....
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:salam2:
Maybe tapping will make the woman feel that the matter is TOOOOO serious. And I guess different people respond differently. To some people a wink is enough, to some others, 24 hours preaching is not enough.
 
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eemaan1

Junior Member
:salam2:

i get ua point bruv GP....

but still whats the point of this tapping in this ayah? lets face it evrithing in the quran has a reason for revelation, thare4 it follows there's a point to this tapping (or beating)... which i dont get!
 
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liaa

Junior Member
Albint_Almuslima said:
Im not a feminist, but come on be honest what am i supposed to do, let my husband ( La samah Allah) hit me!!

Im sorry, but u see i aint that type of person that shuts up when my rights are violated. U could even ask those girls i beat up a few years back when they tried to dicriminate against me because i wear a hijab! LOL
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imh, i start to like your character!!!!
 
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abdallahbilal

Long Live Palestine
Albint_Almuslima said:
Im not a feminist, but come on be honest what am i supposed to do, let my husband ( La samah Allah) hit me!!

Im sorry, but u see i aint that type of person that shuts up when my rights are violated. U could even ask those girls i beat up a few years back when they tried to dicriminate against me because i wear a hijab! LOL
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:salam2:

Don't be angry sister. I just like it that there are sisters who know their rights in Islam and are willing to defend them :) :mashallah:
 
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