ShyHijabi
Junior Member
Salaam,
Remember these warnings:
1. Most of us are not scholars and have no business pretending to be, remember that if you claim to know something and misguide someone, those words may take you to the hellfire.
2. Keep your temper and pride in check, sometimes the discussions here spiral out of control due to tempers or arrogance. Remember the Sunnah and remember that we are all filthy in sin. We have no right to be arrogant or show a temper.
3. Everyone has struggles and sadness, make your first response to be of a gentle and kind nature. When a fellow Muslim is in pain/shame then we need to unite and help this Muslim, not scream and berate them for their stumbles.
4. If you aren't married/have been married then you should refrain from advising people in marital discourse. Trust me when I tell you things are different once you marry.
5. Don't use curse words, ever, when discussing anything on this board. If you wouldn't say it in front of the Prophets or your parents, then the words should never cross your lips or be typed out.
6. If all else fails, just be silent. If you are angry then go pray two rakats before you respond to a post. Remember that the words spoken or written by yourself are being recorded by the twp angels on your shoulders....for eternity.
Wasalaam
Remember these warnings:
1. Most of us are not scholars and have no business pretending to be, remember that if you claim to know something and misguide someone, those words may take you to the hellfire.
2. Keep your temper and pride in check, sometimes the discussions here spiral out of control due to tempers or arrogance. Remember the Sunnah and remember that we are all filthy in sin. We have no right to be arrogant or show a temper.
3. Everyone has struggles and sadness, make your first response to be of a gentle and kind nature. When a fellow Muslim is in pain/shame then we need to unite and help this Muslim, not scream and berate them for their stumbles.
4. If you aren't married/have been married then you should refrain from advising people in marital discourse. Trust me when I tell you things are different once you marry.
5. Don't use curse words, ever, when discussing anything on this board. If you wouldn't say it in front of the Prophets or your parents, then the words should never cross your lips or be typed out.
6. If all else fails, just be silent. If you are angry then go pray two rakats before you respond to a post. Remember that the words spoken or written by yourself are being recorded by the twp angels on your shoulders....for eternity.
Wasalaam
Good reminder. Jazaki Allahu Khayra sister. May Allah give you abundant reward and grant you Jannat-ul-Firdous.
