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Sobhanallah!
Now even *Jannah* is not *good enough* for man!...ao'otho billah min ghadhabi Allah!
Sadaqa Allah when He (sobhanaho wa ta'ala) said about man...
"He was indeed unjust and foolish" [Al-Ahzaab 33:72]
Nobody can ever bar a Muslim from expressing his concerns about an issue in his/her deen..or asks a question about a topic therein...but towards Allah we have *aadaab* that we *must* follow and act upon!...do not let your tongue drag you across *transgression!*...so when you wish to *express* something..you owe it to *yourself* to think of *the best* way through which you may word it!
As for the argument raising due to the topic at hand..I must say that..I find it quite selfish..weak...and ignorant that a woman gets *jealous* of a hooriya in paradise..
First of all...and I am talking to *every woman* with that sort of thinking here...to *your father* Adam...*angels*...of all statuses were *commanded* by Allah to *prostrate!!!*...as to show *your honor* amongst *all of* creation!!!...then He (sobhanaho wa ta'ala) increased *your honor* when He further trusted *you* with His deen..His commands..and His worship!!!..when He (sobhanaho wa ta'ala) has countless angels doing nothing *but* praise and adore His Mighty Name and Lordship!!!...so is your *self* that worthless to you as to get jealous of *hooris* who have not prostrated..made remembrance..or cried a single tear out of *love* and *fear* towards Allah..and had never suffered the tests of this dunya?!!!...is your self *that* worthless to you so you'd get jealous and act all mortified???!!!!
second of all...wipe yourself *dry* of the overconfidence you have *showered* your mind with...if you're engaged..or married..what makes *you* so sure that your *dearly beloved fiance or husband* has been *guaranteed* a hooriya in Jannah...*nonetheless*...a *place* there?!!!..have you not heard of the man who did the works of the people of Jannah all of his life and when he stood before Allah..He (sobhanaho wa ta'ala) revealed to him his true intentions behind committing these works and asked that he be dragged to hell?!!!...so what makes you think that your husband (or even *you* for that matter!) will enter Jannah?!!!
third of all...when will women understand that Jannah is something..and this dunya is something *else?!*...when will they keep mixing the realities of the two?..when will they refrain from letting their emotions interfere with their comprehension of the afterlife?!..and when will women stop worrying about them being 2nd..3rd..4th or 100000th wives of a man in Jannah...and just worry about doing that which will get them a *tree's shade* spot in one..not even a *house* or *palace* there..but a *tree's shade* worth of a spot?!!!
As for the men who act like they have their marriage certificates to hooris stashed somewhere in their homes *already*...all I have to say is...
May Allah help you with that *nafs* of yours...
You have allowed it to blind you from *the true* purpose of Jannah..and the true *intention* of getting there...one of you would lower his gaze once or twice..and he practically jumps with joy inside thinking that that's it...he'd been granted a *wide-eyed hooriya* all his own...and she's in Jannah just *yearning* for him to join her..so he'll just grab the closest laz-boy..fold one leg over the other..and rock back and forth with *self-assurance*...fear Allah!...and love Him..love Him before you love the hooris..and take Jannah for the abode that will bring you close to Him (sobhanaho wa ta'ala)...not the abode of 2 or 3 Hooris some of you daydream about day-in..day-out!
Finally...I would like to say to all..that Allah has said in the Qura'an...
"And I (Allah) created not the jinn and mankind except that they should worship Me (Alone)." [At-Thaariyat 51:56]
When you have had your fill of *that* purpose..and you have managed to stop being a weak..fallible human trapped and tested by his/her human whims and desires...then take the time to speak of Jannah and all the things you're going to *own* and *enjoy* as if you see it all *right before your eyes*
Sobhanallah!
Now even *Jannah* is not *good enough* for man!...ao'otho billah min ghadhabi Allah!
Sadaqa Allah when He (sobhanaho wa ta'ala) said about man...
"He was indeed unjust and foolish" [Al-Ahzaab 33:72]
Nobody can ever bar a Muslim from expressing his concerns about an issue in his/her deen..or asks a question about a topic therein...but towards Allah we have *aadaab* that we *must* follow and act upon!...do not let your tongue drag you across *transgression!*...so when you wish to *express* something..you owe it to *yourself* to think of *the best* way through which you may word it!
As for the argument raising due to the topic at hand..I must say that..I find it quite selfish..weak...and ignorant that a woman gets *jealous* of a hooriya in paradise..
First of all...and I am talking to *every woman* with that sort of thinking here...to *your father* Adam...*angels*...of all statuses were *commanded* by Allah to *prostrate!!!*...as to show *your honor* amongst *all of* creation!!!...then He (sobhanaho wa ta'ala) increased *your honor* when He further trusted *you* with His deen..His commands..and His worship!!!..when He (sobhanaho wa ta'ala) has countless angels doing nothing *but* praise and adore His Mighty Name and Lordship!!!...so is your *self* that worthless to you as to get jealous of *hooris* who have not prostrated..made remembrance..or cried a single tear out of *love* and *fear* towards Allah..and had never suffered the tests of this dunya?!!!...is your self *that* worthless to you so you'd get jealous and act all mortified???!!!!
second of all...wipe yourself *dry* of the overconfidence you have *showered* your mind with...if you're engaged..or married..what makes *you* so sure that your *dearly beloved fiance or husband* has been *guaranteed* a hooriya in Jannah...*nonetheless*...a *place* there?!!!..have you not heard of the man who did the works of the people of Jannah all of his life and when he stood before Allah..He (sobhanaho wa ta'ala) revealed to him his true intentions behind committing these works and asked that he be dragged to hell?!!!...so what makes you think that your husband (or even *you* for that matter!) will enter Jannah?!!!
third of all...when will women understand that Jannah is something..and this dunya is something *else?!*...when will they keep mixing the realities of the two?..when will they refrain from letting their emotions interfere with their comprehension of the afterlife?!..and when will women stop worrying about them being 2nd..3rd..4th or 100000th wives of a man in Jannah...and just worry about doing that which will get them a *tree's shade* spot in one..not even a *house* or *palace* there..but a *tree's shade* worth of a spot?!!!
As for the men who act like they have their marriage certificates to hooris stashed somewhere in their homes *already*...all I have to say is...
May Allah help you with that *nafs* of yours...
You have allowed it to blind you from *the true* purpose of Jannah..and the true *intention* of getting there...one of you would lower his gaze once or twice..and he practically jumps with joy inside thinking that that's it...he'd been granted a *wide-eyed hooriya* all his own...and she's in Jannah just *yearning* for him to join her..so he'll just grab the closest laz-boy..fold one leg over the other..and rock back and forth with *self-assurance*...fear Allah!...and love Him..love Him before you love the hooris..and take Jannah for the abode that will bring you close to Him (sobhanaho wa ta'ala)...not the abode of 2 or 3 Hooris some of you daydream about day-in..day-out!
Finally...I would like to say to all..that Allah has said in the Qura'an...
"And I (Allah) created not the jinn and mankind except that they should worship Me (Alone)." [At-Thaariyat 51:56]
When you have had your fill of *that* purpose..and you have managed to stop being a weak..fallible human trapped and tested by his/her human whims and desires...then take the time to speak of Jannah and all the things you're going to *own* and *enjoy* as if you see it all *right before your eyes*