Everlasting Ligh
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I think I have a problem, a sick feeling in my self and I don’t really know how to start but let me try. Ever since I know what is the proper dress code of a muslimah, I have been trying to change and it cost me a lot coz I have so much of cloths that I cant wear anymore in my closet. I am trying so hard and sometimes I kind of hate my life coz I have no cloths to wear to go out to meet friends like I used to. I have budget to take care of and because I am trying so hard to change sometimes my husband teased me that I look like a person going to the garden. L Because I am trying to mix and match to cover myself.
Everytime when I go out, I will never wear a short sleeve shirt or short pants or without my scaft coz I know that is not covering my aurat. My questions now is why I…… have to cover myself because I am trying to obey my God and because I want Him to love me and yet I see born muslims don’t cover themselves? They dress like a kafir, like I used to wear before. For me to go back to what I used to wear before will be a NO NO for me coz I feel people is looking at my arms and legs.
Don’t they know or don’t they care?
Please tell me how to stop looking at other people and concentrate on myself only?
Everytime when I go out, I will never wear a short sleeve shirt or short pants or without my scaft coz I know that is not covering my aurat. My questions now is why I…… have to cover myself because I am trying to obey my God and because I want Him to love me and yet I see born muslims don’t cover themselves? They dress like a kafir, like I used to wear before. For me to go back to what I used to wear before will be a NO NO for me coz I feel people is looking at my arms and legs.
Don’t they know or don’t they care?
Please tell me how to stop looking at other people and concentrate on myself only?