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hope every one is in best of health InshAllah
i want to ask a question about physical pain , and illness,
it is said, one who meets physical pain should be patient, and pain wipe out sins, but sincerely, i think pain is the hardest thing to live with in life, i mean , it stops u from doing any thing, u can't even talk sometimes, u don't feel , live in the world , normally, especially if pain never stops; physical pain is the worst thing, and ppl of hell will be punished by pain , so it means it's really somthing hard to live with
in my 20 years of existance, i tell u as a human beeing and from an objective point of vue, that i know a woman, who never ever tohught bas of others, who always have pure intentions, who'll never tell others to do bad , who is sincere in her faith , i can attest it, i don't think she deserves pain because she never commited any sin, like important, even she tries to avoid little things
but this woman, she feels soo much main all time, she keeps asking for forgiveness , but at the same time she fears the hereafter, because she felt so much pain in this life that, she thinks, what will happen if she fails in the hereafter, she can't really know, nobody is 100%sure, it' s only up to Allah SWT, the Most mercifull, and he only Know who will die as a beleiver or not
me on the other side, i falled a lot of times in my life, and haven't been a good person all the time, and i feel this woman is suffering due to me, and now i can't do anything for her except praying, but it has been so many years; it 's still so much difficult
i think if she is suffering so much in this life due to me, due to my sins, what will happen to me, in the grave and hereafter, because even if i ask for forgiveness, i couldn't return my mother all these years of pain , of illness, so i conclude i'll have to suffer too one day or another, because i can't go back in the past and make my mom's life a healthy life;
now i'm trying hard to become good and ease my mom's illness ; but i can't see her suffering, especially when i have this strong feeling that she has illness dur to me and my sins, and when she cries, how can i react
i just wanted to ask what can i do, because i"ve seen my mom suffering too much and i can't handle it in my heart anymore, it's too hard for me, i never talk about my mom illness to others because i feel ashamed of myself then , and more guilty, and i think even if Allah SWT forgive me for my sins, He won't forgive me for all the pain i gave to my mom by disobeying her
i need help please
hope every one is in best of health InshAllah
i want to ask a question about physical pain , and illness,
it is said, one who meets physical pain should be patient, and pain wipe out sins, but sincerely, i think pain is the hardest thing to live with in life, i mean , it stops u from doing any thing, u can't even talk sometimes, u don't feel , live in the world , normally, especially if pain never stops; physical pain is the worst thing, and ppl of hell will be punished by pain , so it means it's really somthing hard to live with
in my 20 years of existance, i tell u as a human beeing and from an objective point of vue, that i know a woman, who never ever tohught bas of others, who always have pure intentions, who'll never tell others to do bad , who is sincere in her faith , i can attest it, i don't think she deserves pain because she never commited any sin, like important, even she tries to avoid little things
but this woman, she feels soo much main all time, she keeps asking for forgiveness , but at the same time she fears the hereafter, because she felt so much pain in this life that, she thinks, what will happen if she fails in the hereafter, she can't really know, nobody is 100%sure, it' s only up to Allah SWT, the Most mercifull, and he only Know who will die as a beleiver or not
me on the other side, i falled a lot of times in my life, and haven't been a good person all the time, and i feel this woman is suffering due to me, and now i can't do anything for her except praying, but it has been so many years; it 's still so much difficult
i think if she is suffering so much in this life due to me, due to my sins, what will happen to me, in the grave and hereafter, because even if i ask for forgiveness, i couldn't return my mother all these years of pain , of illness, so i conclude i'll have to suffer too one day or another, because i can't go back in the past and make my mom's life a healthy life;
now i'm trying hard to become good and ease my mom's illness ; but i can't see her suffering, especially when i have this strong feeling that she has illness dur to me and my sins, and when she cries, how can i react
i just wanted to ask what can i do, because i"ve seen my mom suffering too much and i can't handle it in my heart anymore, it's too hard for me, i never talk about my mom illness to others because i feel ashamed of myself then , and more guilty, and i think even if Allah SWT forgive me for my sins, He won't forgive me for all the pain i gave to my mom by disobeying her
i need help please